Friandise

@friandise.bsky.social

🔞 || 🇨🇦 || Single || Valentine Bunny || M.Ed. || Métis (Cree) || Two-Spirit / Non-Binary || They/Them || 29 || FR/EN

As an NB person, I cringe so hard when I hear people "compliment" trans people by saying things like: "I'd have never been able to tell!" "You don't LOOK trans!" Why not just: "You're beautiful" or "You're cute" or "You're handsome" or anything that doesn't point out the fact they're trans??? 😭

Today was the first time I’ve presented my work thus far to my colleagues (most of whom are accomplished academics) and I was so nervous that my work would be sneered. But, they were FLOORED by what I did, jaws literally dropped, and most joked about wanting to steal me for their departments. 🥺

To be completely honest, I wouldn't have been considering HRT as a non-binary person if it wasn't for @spiritbrat.bsky.social. Seeing their journey and reading their posts since they started transitioning has been so inspirational. Thanks so much, Hush. I'm so grateful, even if you didn't know. <3

Guess who's hip-hoppin' around Bluesky~ It's me, Friandise (pronounced: free-ahn-deez), but you can call me Fri for short~ I'm a Valentine's bunny, meaning I'm all about spreading that L-O-V-E! 💗 I'm an athlete, a musician, a dancer, and so much more! Don't be a stranger; I don't bite—I kiss~ 💋

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To be completely honest, I wouldn't have been considering HRT as a non-binary person if it wasn't for @spiritbrat.bsky.social. Seeing their journey and reading their posts since they started transitioning has been so inspirational. Thanks so much, Hush. I'm so grateful, even if you didn't know. <3

Today was the first time I’ve presented my work thus far to my colleagues (most of whom are accomplished academics) and I was so nervous that my work would be sneered. But, they were FLOORED by what I did, jaws literally dropped, and most joked about wanting to steal me for their departments. 🥺

As an NB person, I cringe so hard when I hear people "compliment" trans people by saying things like: "I'd have never been able to tell!" "You don't LOOK trans!" Why not just: "You're beautiful" or "You're cute" or "You're handsome" or anything that doesn't point out the fact they're trans??? 😭

The quality of frozen fries/wedges has gone up exponentially; it's awesome. You're telling me I can get a bag of frozen potatoes that's just as good as fast food places, but can be made in an air fryer and at a fraction of the price??? Sold!

I ate some almonds earlier and a tiny little piece was stuck in my braces. When I finally got it free, it was just this hard little dot in my mouth…. So I swished it, licked my lips, let it get stuck on there by my spit before slurping it back in… it was heavenly… 🤤 Just like my favourite micros~

Dolly Parton and Tim Curry passing away on the same day is diabolical. They were both 80 too. We lost two queer icons. 😭 You’ve both had such powerful impacts on a marginalized community and I hope you can rest peacefully knowing that. ♥️

Welp, that's that. I've been cut off financially, so my dad isn't on my side either. I have a doctors appointment in a week, and it's $415 for the initial appointment. We can't afford that big of a hit at this stage, so I'm gonna ask for help. Sharing is appreciated! Paypal.me/whitetatsu

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