What Pete Buttigieg said about trans athletes didn’t shock me because I lived under his mayorship for 7 years in South Bend, Indiana. Pete is gay, not queer. This is a painful lesson for many to learn that a man loving another man — does not mean that man will love other LGBTQ folks well.

There are things happening currently that no textbook or therapy training could have prepared me for. Instead, I look to the healers of the past for guidance of the future.

Many Evangelicals I grew up with were against Medicaid and SNAP — claiming these programs came from a lack of trust in god and using phrases like “if you don’t work, you shouldn’t eat.”

Christian fundamentalism is affecting our economy and policies.

There’s a lot of misunderstandings in non-affirming Christianity about what Pride Month is about. I write more about the context in my latest Substack.

After months of seeing Canva promote Christian themes, I couldn’t include a Pride flag emoji in a design upload — just in time for Pride Month. I’ll be ending my Canva membership, and my content will appear differently as a result. The real ones will stay for my content, not the aesthetic.

Dear str8 therapists in Facebook groups, Please stop saying you’re the “perfect fit” for 🏳️‍⚧️ 🏳️‍🌈 clients. While no therapist is perfect, I can confidently say as a trans and queer therapist that there are 2SLGBTQIA+ nuances that str8 therapists may never comprehend regardless of what CEUs you got.

During my workout at Planet Fitness this morning, I saw people wearing paramilitary gear (probably from Temu), a woman in tie dye carrying a Walkman, and gay house music began playing over the loud speaker. This is how millennials are coping with the stress of America at 7:30am.

I didn’t grow up posh. I grew up as a Christian fundamentalist.

HHS Report on Pediatric Gender Dysphoria is as scientific as Creationism. The report acknowledges that gender exploratory therapy is the same as conversion therapy but because of people’s negative perspectives of conversion therapy (and for good reason), they decided to rename it. 🥴

Christian fundamentalism hyperfixates on Romans 8:28 to keep skeptics in the church because of fear of failure. #religioustrauma #exvangelical #exfundie #deconstruction

The ripple effects of conversion therapy

"A new disease registry is being launched to track Americans with autism" 😳

Pope Francis was not an LGBTQ+ ally. While he may have advocated for general human rights, he dehumanized LGBTQ+, especially transgender people. I break down Catholic Breadcrumbing in my latest Substack article.

The next time you find yourself declaring "I'm a hugger" or "I'm not a hugger," consider whether this simplification may prevent nuance in your relationships.

For religious trauma survivors, reclaiming emotional language is a vital part of healing.

Anger can be a deep, visceral response to the injustice of having to sacrifice relationships for the sake of being true to oneself.

I still can’t believe that Anita Bryant took time out of her busy schedule in Hell to endorse my new book SHAME-SEX ATTRACTION! So grateful for her support! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

I turned 30 today and here’s the Top 10 things I learned from my 20s:

2025 INS: - Following through with boundaries you set - Asking everyone’s pronouns, not just those who you perceive as 🏳️‍⚧️ - Supporting LGBTQ+ local businesses - Having wholesome, no-to-low cost dates - Having LGBTQ+ house parties - Cooking food that brings you good memories