To all those who voted for the Diseased Man... This is my message to you: music.youtube.com/watch?v=xPfZ...
RØWAN VALE - get f*cked (Official Lyric Video)
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Mike the Perpetual Student
@sacwriter.bsky.social
A Polymath, specializing in trauma and sex therapy using IFS and EMDR. LGBTQIA+ ally. Book fanatic and a little witchy. An Exvangelical who supports victims of church abuse. Proud Swiftie.
To all those who voted for the Diseased Man... This is my message to you: music.youtube.com/watch?v=xPfZ...
RØWAN VALE - get f*cked (Official Lyric Video)
YouTube video by RØWAN VALE
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Good morning everyone, I hope you have a terrific Tuesday *smiles* Today's thought: Dysphoria is really a nasty visitor, it can strike at anytime and doesn't need anything to trigger it. Just remember if it does decide to pop its head up, it's lying to you, you are exactly who you believe you are ❤️
Wismeijer & van Assen (2013), an online questionnaire study of 902 BDSM practitioners vs. 434 controls (NEO-FFI, Attachment Styles Questionnaire, Rejection Sensitivity Questionnaire, WHO-Five Well-being Index), found practitioners scored lower on neuroticism,
Does the Asshole-in-Chief really believe other countries are going to honor economic sanctions against Iran? Seriously?! He has done everything possible to bully and harangue everyone and gets pissy when they won’t play along. This isn’t prep school, boy. This is the entire planet that hates you.
Cobra chickens are as big a threat as any saber-rattling Prez Kevin does. Oh wait...no. They follow through.
RCAF Strike Aircraft in action
One of the funniest and kindest men ever to grace our screens.
Wave Goodbye Uncle Buck
ALT: Wave Goodbye Uncle Buck
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Also - please join me if you will in flooding Bluesky with Canadian culture. Music, art, film, TV. Let’s show the vibrancy of this place I’m proud to call home.
IFS Insight. In Internal Family Systems, we believe our internal system mirrors the parts of the world system we are part of. One of those parts in an Exile. The Exile is that part of us who remains wounded, rejected, hurt, abused, traumatized. We ignore them to make ourselves feel better. 1/2
Psychology and neurology agrees that there is a way to bring a brain into a state where past memories can be changed--a process called Reconsolidation. Here are 20 key things to know about that process: www.mentalhealthactivity.com/memory-recon...
20 Things You Should Know About Memory Reconsolidation - mental Health Activity
Memory Reconsolidation highlights the dynamic nature of how we store and access our past. Far from being static snapshots, our memories ...
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No filter and unscripted but slightly edited video to just say Hi from The Love Maven. 🩷 (Im trying to embrace being 50 and natural so no make up either. This is me.) #LoveMaven #IFSRelationshipCoach #ForestGoddess #NoFilter #KootenayLife
A story where I teach about rules we learn through attachment. www.instagram.com/reel/DcPnt_4...
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Lust. Let's stop using this word. It's a pejorative term used to control others by shaming them for having sexual desires. It's often a patriarchal term because it is used to blame women some men want to have sex with. Sexual desire is not sin. Sexual desire is hard-wired into you. Stop shaming.
Describe your music taste using only three artists. No genres allowed. 1. Madonna 2. Taylor Swift 3. Billie Eilish
Describe your music taste using only three artists No genres allowed 1. Sara Bareilles. 2. Taylor Swift 3. NKOTB
The narrator of Radio Flyer shows that a horrible traumatic memory can be changed. We can choose a different do-over. "That's the Way I Choose to Remember It": Radio Flyer, Memory Reconsolidation, and the Healing Power of Retelling mikeinsac.wordpress.com/2026/08/12/t...
“That’s the Way I Choose to Remember It”: Radio Flyer, Memory Reconsolidation, and the Healing Power of Retelling
Any memory can be rehabilitated by the process of memory reconsolidation. In this article, the movie ‘Radio Flyer’ shows how it works.
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It’s hard for me to decide if all of the people who have left the Trump inner circle are women because: 1. He can’t stand to work with women. 2. They can’t stomach working with him. 3. It’s fucking both and we all know it.
Regardless of what memories haunt you, they can be changed. They can be reconsolidated and the symptoms you carry can be changed as well. "That's the Way I Choose to Remember It": Radio Flyer, Memory Reconsolidation, and the Healing Power of Retelling mikeinsac.wordpress.com/2026/08/12/t...
“That’s the Way I Choose to Remember It”: Radio Flyer, Memory Reconsolidation, and the Healing Power of Retelling
Any memory can be rehabilitated by the process of memory reconsolidation. In this article, the movie ‘Radio Flyer’ shows how it works.
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“That’s the Way I Choose to Remember It”: Radio Flyer, Memory Reconsolidation, and the Healing Power of Retelling Any memory can be rehabilitated by the process of memory reconsolidation. In this article, the movie ‘Radio Flyer’ shows how it works.
“That’s the Way I Choose to Remember It”: Radio Flyer, Memory Reconsolidation, and the Healing Power of Retelling
Any memory can be rehabilitated by the process of memory reconsolidation. In this article, the movie ‘Radio Flyer’ shows how it works.
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Colonization is the old Human. The New evolution of Human is not interested in colonizing anything or anyone.
I taught in Youth With a Mission schools for over 25 years. 162 schools...mostly DTS. I taught in Montana, LA, Yosemite, Wyoming, St. Croix, SFO, Bellingham bases. Now I'm an agnostic. Mostly I taught on hearing god's voice. I still believe what I taught. I just don't believe in god. 1/3
The road from Evangelical ↔️ Skeptic ↔️ Exvangelical ↔️ Witchy ↔️ Quantum Physics ↔️ Global conciousness is a well-trodden byway now. I have met many I love on that journey.
We need to protect Social Security for the next generation.
My daughter thinks this is hilarious to do with her dog. She's right of course.
I played 18 years of competitive soccer (football). 2 years before school started. 12 years of school 4 years of college. In that time, I broke every toe except the big one on my left foot. But none more often than the baby on my right foot. I did it again today. Second time this year.
The neuroscience of why impact play doesn't feel like pain. This is how a stubbed toe hurts much worse than a flogger. mikeinsac.wordpress.com/2026/06/07/y...
Impact Play and Your Two Brains
The brain knows how to distinguish pain that you actually want from pain that you don’t want. It’s fascinating how it works.
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Friendly reminder 🩷
For those of us who have done IFS work, this is your once in a while reminder that those young exiles and protectors inside us need us to spend time with them as a good parent does with their child. We build new/healthy neural networks within with them by doing this. #IFS #IFSCoach #LoveMaven
The big difference between Bsky and Threads. I can post the same thing on both sites. On here, everyone gets it. On there, half of them miss that the statement is ironic. I can’t even go there any more.
Here’s a great thread explaining how my friend does coaching using an Internal Family Systems framework. She may be just what you need. Read her description here.
It's Monday so I thought it would be a good day to talk about coaching. Specifically IFS Coaching. My coaching. 🧵⤵️🤍
We now know the GOP playbook for the midterms: 1. The Communists are coming 2. Fauci ruined you 3. We will fix the economy that some mythical democrat ruined. 4. The Dems will bring back abortion and allow trans females to attack your children in bathrooms.