when i die they will cut me open and the secrets of your bad behaviour will come spilling out. they're engraved on my bones.

was on a call the other day with a bunch of authors; the topic of "feeling like i have to stay on the hamster wheel and if i don't my career will tank and i will die" and let me tell you as the empress supreme of inconsistency... that is just not true. you can stop today. breathe & take a break.

Getting to go to L.A. next week to celebrate my husband's nomination for VA of the year at the #GaymingAwards and also celebrate all the other incredible nominees in all the categories? I never thought this would be my life, but I am glad I never gave up. The dip delivers.

My life has been so peaceful, happy, better, since I stopped trying to help a group of people insistent on staying in a victim mindset. Now I spend time helping others who are excited to create new opportunities for themselves, and are happy to just chill together and work on our futures.

I decided to get real consistent at the beginning of the month and the worst thing happened: it worked. :O

that's it, I'm on bsky, here I am, hello, what's up where are my other romance authors and readers at?