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Maybe its kind of like being a climate scientist who has seen all the data, just hanging around with other people who "believe you" but kind of want to get on with their day (see, metaphor of being a scientist, narc tendency? probably more that I love metaphors)

Hugovicius 🐇@hugopm.bsky.social · yesterday

the other crazy thing about NPD is that since its in your family you're psychologically going to be attracted to people both romantically and friends who are on the NPD spectrum or codependent spectrum but ALSO BY DEFINITION it can feel pointless to address it to them if they're not really aware🤕

the other crazy thing about NPD is that since its in your family you're psychologically going to be attracted to people both romantically and friends who are on the NPD spectrum or codependent spectrum but ALSO BY DEFINITION it can feel pointless to address it to them if they're not really aware🤕

it feels like doing nothing or the very minimum is the only recourse, which triggers a kind of helplessness/hopelessness. I suppose you just have to process that it sucks, and try to forget about it until the next triggering event. Thankfully processing means "triggers" become much less triggering.

Hugovicius 🐇@hugopm.bsky.social · yesterday

NPD and its family network is particularly frustrating because by definition it has a lack of introspection, so not only will no diagnosis be forthcoming (for others) but one has to check one's own Narc symptoms in communicating with others whose own Narc symptoms will be defensive fun stuff

NPD and its family network is particularly frustrating because by definition it has a lack of introspection, so not only will no diagnosis be forthcoming (for others) but one has to check one's own Narc symptoms in communicating with others whose own Narc symptoms will be defensive fun stuff

it's been a huge relief honestly to realize that my mother has NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) of the cover kind. By definition, she will never get a diagnosis, and understanding that that pathology is incredibly insecure, and therefore low on empathy allows me to let go of so much

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The Diaries of Netovicius the Vampire

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I can't watch Gilmore Girls because I'm pretty sure I know what it's about and I can't help that without being trans my ideal life would have been to be a cute girl who is close to their nice mom and hang out in gazebos maybe

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