We started the year saying goodbye to a wonderful companion that grew up with each of our kids. Mayhem constantly looked out for and protected them. She was such a sweetheart and always offered a comforting snuggle. She’ll never be replaced in our hearts and memories.
Bemused Ross
@roscoejones.bsky.social
• Trying to construct values around communal thriving • I’m funnier online He/Him
this is no shade to johnna here. but i think it's important to mark a clear difference between writing to a purposefully narrow demo, & writing from an exclusionary lens that does not acknowledge and affirm the validity, goodness, beauty, wholeness, or even existence of every other demographic. 1/4
I also want to acknowledge that the target audience of this book seems narrow and purposeful& I’m not opposed to people writing to specific demos. I’d love to know if someone is doing similar peer reviewed research around implications on the LGBTQ+ community re:sex messaging/theology/purity culture
It was so good to be able to join this morning. My day was brighter because of the amazing people there
Deconstruction coffee hour warmed my soul this morning. Life is messy and we show up as we are and there honestly aren’t enough places where we get to do that, but this is one of them. @cortland.me @justingentry.bsky.social @mramler.bsky.social @shansmith.bsky.social @bv-pdx.bsky.social 1/
I always feared literal quicksand growing up, not realizing it would actually look like white evangelical indoctrination
If anything, @cortland.me sharing his daily fit is bringing me joy. Give him a follow! ❤️
blue sky has me happy. the app and the atmosphere.
The more I process about the convo I had with my gaslighting and manipulative mother over Thanksgiving the more baffled I get
Talking to my mom about any kind of difficult topic this past weekend was like talking to an AI chatbot whose prompt was to spout off f*x news and white evangelical talking points while completely ignoring cognitive dissonance
Talking to my mom about any kind of difficult topic this past weekend was like talking to an AI chatbot whose prompt was to spout off f*x news and white evangelical talking points while completely ignoring cognitive dissonance
i'm not serious on this account very often. but if you don't make it clear that you ride with trans users here, i will seriously campaign for you to be nuclear blocked into oblivion.
if you are not going to stand up for trans people here, given that they are an essential group who built the culture here. then you really don’t deserve to be here.
Not my mom telling me over Thanksgiving I was diagnosed as ADHD in grade school and they never told me and never got me meds because they were scared of the side effects and I got myself diagnosed at 40 years old and appreciate the meds now
Not my mom telling me over Thanksgiving I was diagnosed as ADHD in grade school and they never told me and never got me meds because they were scared of the side effects and I got myself diagnosed at 40 years old and appreciate the meds now
Having a very tense conversation with a conflict avoidant parent while I’m trying to heal/work on my own conflict avoidance was not fun
So people are using APIs to automatically like and follow people here based on keywords in posts? Cool cool cool…
Trickle down didn’t work for economics, but you expect it to work for washing your legs?!
Two vital pieces of info b4 Black Friday: 1. Price trackers have proven that Amazon has been slowly hiking prices so they can pretend to slash them on Black Friday/Cyber Monday. There are no actual deals. Just the appearance of them. 2. Amazon workers are on strike www.google.com/amp/s/amp.th...
Amazon workers in 20 countries to protest or strike on Black Friday
Workers and their representatives to press US retailer to respect their rights and take action on the climate crisis
google.com
It’s a donuts and Dutch Bros day. Wearing my ATL hat with the Content Warning event coming up on my mind. I’d love to see you there if you can make it!
In honor of all the new arrivals, I'm sharing one of my favorite videos. It shows 24 hours of Earth's rotation, with the camera locked to the sky instead of the ground. We're all hanging out on this spinning rock. Brilliant work by Bartosz Wojczyński. 🧪 artuniverse.eu/gallery/1907...
I just realized @flavorflav.bsky.social is on Bluesky because of course he is. My apologies for the misspelling of your name, kind sir 🫶🏼🕐
5) Llived in Vegas, I was cutting thru a gas station parking lot after grabbing In-n-Out and Flava Flav jogged out of the store (timepiece and all). As I stopped to let him cross, he put his hand up and had a genuinely huge, friendly smile on his face as he made eye contact with me and nodded.
The community that we have almost every Tuesday morning in Deconstruction Coffee Hour is next level. Today we cried and listened to poetry and laughed too and swore and talked about Wicked and said all the things. Thank you. ☕️✨
It’s a donuts and Dutch Bros day. Wearing my ATL hat with the Content Warning event coming up on my mind. I’d love to see you there if you can make it!
Part a GIF of your comfort show
bob 's burgers is a cartoon that shows a group of people sitting in front of a window .
Alt: A scene from bob’s burgers that shows the Belchers in their restaurant. Tina is sliding off a stool while saying ugh
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Post a gif of your comfort show.
I’m very motivated by @cortland.me to go thrift shopping
Have I Got News For You got picked up for a second season and I’m so pumped! @amberruffin.bsky.social bringing some great energy with Tim Burchett on the show was worth the watch alone!
Maybe it’s the meds, but I marked up a Google image screenshot of a problematic intersection in our town and sent it to public works AND I called to cancel a $10 per month subscription I don’t use You could say things are going pretty well…
Hey, can I share one of my favorite pictures I ever took?