Ginger Beef 🫚

@itsgingerbeef.bsky.social

he/him | 🇨🇦 living in 🇦🇺 Naarm/Melbourne | 🏳‍🌈 | plantsman 🌱 | don’t mind me, my brain is literally on fire 🔥🧠🔥

project manager calls to inform me of structural change “thought i’d reach out before this goes live because ummmm… we know how you are” owner personally calls me to inform me i’m being put on our highest profile project cuz “let’s be real you’ll actually tell me who is fucking everything up” lmao

i know it's different for everyone but in my mind there are "dads" (gays who embody certain dad-like qualities in a whimsical, fun, and relatable way) and there are "dads" (gays who grew a mustache and figured that's all it takes)

here’s the tea: i’ve noticed your posts, i see that you follow me, i think you’re interesting/funny, i’m not following you because you’re a horny reply guy & you will absolutely fail the dm test, i’m at peace with the universe & i don’t want that in my life lol

ok so i can’t give out validation when you’ve got shit self-esteem because no amount of me can fix that & responding to it is a moth to a flame & like curb stomping a baby that’s on YOU 🫵🏻 you’ve got to do the work internally and ask for real talk, real help, not a dopamine hit, it’s irresponsible