Jessie Gender

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Director & Writer | IDENTITEAZE film | YouTuber | former writer/video producer at Gamespot, The Advocate, Microsoft, Out Magazine, Rotten Tomatoes, & Skybound | Trekkie by birth https://www.jessieearl.com/

To address this because I’m annoyed at the bad faith framing of my point. I am not talking about abusers private life. There are many conflicting things when it comes to that. I’m specifically talking about a situation where an abuser seeks fame and public platform.

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Look at Dan Harmon He came out and openly said what he did, said it was wrong, apologized, publicly detailed what he did wrong, made amends with the person he hurt, and never shied away from questions about it or tried to defend his actions The path is there to redemption, it's just harder

"Hurt people hurt people" is an explanation for harm, not an excuse for harm as we often use it as. Even if you are the victim of abuse, that does not excuse you doing abuse in return. Shit like that is what ideologies like Zionism are built on. We only break abuse cycles through accountability.

Interesting the biggest objection people have to my essay on Jacob Geller is me saying he should have been open about having SA'd someone. "Should he have worn it on his neck?". Yes. Rehabilitation requires accountabilty which requires openness. People just want permission to ignore assault.

Scholastic sent me a whole box of paperback copies of Sorcerer’s Stone that I sure didn't order. When I asked why, my rep told me they're sending complimentary giveaway copies to random schools that do Book Fair.

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This was a great article but I think this part in particular encapsulates what I feel is the real problem with this "what to do with Jacob Geller" discourse. He lied to us all because he wanted to make money as an influential video essayist. Tl;dr most YouTubers are scumbags.

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Consider The Woodchipper by @edgarallanbro.bsky.social CW: sexual assault, rape "Let me be clear: you are not a victim of what Geller did." Read on:

NEW SCRIPT UP PATREON: Liberals Don’t Want Trans Women to Win; a look at why liberal arguments for trans inclusion in sports fail to address the premises the right makes about trans athletes, and sports have become the most successful anti-trans issue in America. www.patreon.com/jessiegender...

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Early in my relationship with my future wife, we passed through Phoenix on the way home from a Christmas road trip. I learned, somewhat to m

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NEW SCRIPT UP PATREON: Liberals Don’t Want Trans Women to Win; a look at why liberal arguments for trans inclusion in sports fail to address the premises the right makes about trans athletes, and sports have become the most successful anti-trans issue in America. www.patreon.com/jessiegender...

Liberals Don’t Want Trans Women to Win SCRIPT | Jessie Gender

Early in my relationship with my future wife, we passed through Phoenix on the way home from a Christmas road trip. I learned, somewhat to m

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I loved Jacob’s work to. It inspired me. That’s not gonna change. It will always be a part of my life. But I wish I had given that love and time and money and attention to someone who was also making great art who hadn’t violated someone so completely. He didn’t give me that choice. I have it now.

It honeslty just shows me how much rape culture exists. With James Somerton, we all collectively agreed he didn’t deserve a platform anymore, and he disappeared. I’m sure he’s got some job somewhere, living a life. But an admitted rapist, well, he we must forgive, because some of us liked his stuff.

“No one is saying “Gellar should disappear.” We’re saying he should not seek a public platform & that many will now not support him if he does. Sucks if he does, cause some will support him because we forgive rapists more easily than plagiarist like James Somerton.

Drew Peardon@drew-peardon.bsky.social · last wk.

Sorry to say it, but in a society, everyone’s concerns matter, because everyone contributes to society. You can’t just make the bad people disappear, because whether you like it or not, you need them. @jasonkpargin.bsky.social made a brilliant video about this: youtu.be/O3GzrYI8Tj4?...

One thing that's been bothering me in the last couple days is I have never seen this level of "we should forgive and forget" "rehabilitation" for any woman doing anything perceived as or actually wrong no matter how small compared to literally having sexually assaulted someone.

Finally saw The Uprising. Feels like a vauge outline of a movie. Structurally it’s fine (except the end) but nothing feels specific. Characters talk only in vague generalities or plot, like someone meant to plug in specific traits and personality later on. Bummer cause it’s an interesting time.

I think it is evidence of how so much we have been made to think that gaining an audience is the goal of life in this attention-seeking economy that saying "a rapist shouldn't seek a public persona that is available for consumption" is taken as equivalent to saying they "can never rejoin society."

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Loving South Park continually using ableist slurs, anti-trans humor, AI imagery and the continual idea that “small penis makes you less of a man” as humor that everyone loves. But they say “Trump bad” so it’s ok right?