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Chalice - 25 - whatever my art acc: @sodachalice.bsky.social

a well known child groomer in the roleplay communities i grew up in has gone by the name "Toxic/tox" for some time now. i only just now found out by my boyfriend who was in a groupchat with them when his friends came forward about the grooming that they actually changed it To Toxic like

its crazy for people to be attempting to instigate some sort of cancelization or drama over me supporting incest and pedophilia when 90% of their posts are about dess x asgore or uncle fucking. like the most i do is post giant tits. its just so fucking weird all the time.

i desperately just want a story that acknowledges the nuance is there and then also goes well it doesn't really matter on a small scale does it. "the abuser loved" so does everyone else, and the abuser can also grieve like everybody else, and deal with consequences like everybody else.

my roommate has turned me telling them hey when i ask you to keep the cat out of my room i really meaj it so in the future please listen to me when i ask into a multi month arguement where they accuse me of turning them into a giant monster and exploding at them and then said i kept them from

sorry webcomic artist but "the abuser ALSO loves..." is not as nuanced and compelling as it should be to me because i am a grown adult who understands that human beings sometimes abuse eachother in an attempt to love eachother. good visual methods though.

growing up as an off grid kid i didnt have much social media until my late teens, didnt have a phone until the same time and didnt have tv and overall i guess im just glad i have the skills to admit to myself that the internet fucking suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuucks.

saw a post that was like "dunno how to tell you this but you dont have to pay me back for a 3$ mcchicken who traumatized you" and remembers my roommate who i dated for 5 years has been strong arming and needling me over every 1$ purchase they made for me despite them being employed at a cushy office

me and my boyfriend have this issue we were talking about how there are couples in fiction that are "us couples" but that doesnt mean they act like us, it means its like a couple we'd specifically write together. burt and ernie, dirkjake, etc etc. but we were also talking about how they don't MAKE