J. B. Rainsberger

@jbrains.ca

A professional 5-pin bowler who owns a bowling center in Minnedosa, Manitoba, but who still finds time to help software professionals work with less stress for ready money. experience.jbrains.ca :: minnedosabowl.ca

The old joke says that an American will always do the right thing once they've exhausted every other option. As a Canadian, I have a cultural duty to be better. What if I suddenly started practising non-judgmental observation frfr? fivepinbowling.substack.com/p/non-judgme...

Non-Judgmental Observation As If You Really Needed It

Taking another idea from software development, stripping away the blame, then using what’s left to develop skill

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When I advise people to calm their mind and tame their workload by writing things down, they often become even more anxious. Write which things down? How much? How many? What's too much? What's enough? I get it. First, breathe. Next, watch the video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oc1jitMQxZk

When Writing Things Down, Just Keep Writing

"OK, I should write things down. How much? When? How much detail? Will it be enough? Won't it be too much?"Eh. Just try, I'm begging you.

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When I run an errand down at the other end of Main St, I often have some observation or anecdote in mind, drawn from my daily practice. I record these in the hopes that you might find them helpful: instructive, uplifting, hopeful… whatever you need. blog.jbrains.ca/permalink/in...

Introducing 'Walk & Talk's — The jbrains Blog

I've started a new series of videos, typically 2-5 minutes, on various topics related to psychological safety, personal productivity, and working more harmoniously with others. Watch along!

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Sometimes, when you submit a feature request, they actually ship it! Even a bank!! "We made improvements based on feedback from customers like you. Now, sort by date to view your most recent transactions first, or your oldest."

An announcement of a new feature at a banking web site, including "We made improvements based on feedback from customers like you. Now, sort by date to view your most recent transactions first, or your oldest."

I'm planning to uproot my life and move, but I don't feel stress from the explosion of things to do, because of #GTD. I have a long list of things to do. I keep having more ideas. There's on the list. I'll get to them. I won't forget anything important. It'll be fine. #GettingThingsDone

Two weekends. Two tournaments. 40 qualifying games. Zero playoff appearances. Still, for the first time, scoring 10001 for 40 consecutive tournament games, averaging 250.025. Round numbers aren't so important, but a milestone is a milestone. #5pinbowling

When interactions "go wrong", the very thing you are most likely to complain about and try to change is the very thing that most people find hardest and most painful to change about themselves. Result? Merry chaos. I propose an alternative that might actually work. blog.jbrains.ca/permalink/th...

The Fundamental Irony of Human Interaction — The jbrains Blog

When interactions "go wrong", the very thing you are most likely to complain about and try to change is the very thing that most people find hardest and most painful to change about themselves. Result...

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Strategy: Say things so egregious and obviously stupid that the listener is stunned into inaction and can only :shrug:. Example: "All women love ballrooms." I would call it "genius" if I thought it were intentional.