Kitty du jour

@kittydujour.bsky.social

Australian Dominatrix • Boorloo (Perth) based • Host of SMUT CLUB FILM FEST 💌: kittydujour@protonmail.com

I think people sometimes forget that domination is a relationship between two people, not a personality trait. You can have all the leather and expensive toys in the world, but if you can't read the person in front of you, what exactly are we doing here?

There is a particular pleasure in an afternoon that belongs entirely to us. No rushing, no watching the clock, nowhere else you're expected to be. Just the delicious business of enjoying ourselves.

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🖤⛓️ Availability ⛓️🖤 Monday - OBOEDIRE WORKSHOPS Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday - 10-2 Friday 10-12 (There are still tickets available for my IMPACT 101 and PSYCHOLOGICAL PLAY 201, tonight from 6pm) As always, mind your manners. Kittydujour@protonmail.com

Sunday evenings are for fresh sheets, good books, a glass of something lovely and considering what pleasures the coming week might hold. If you intend to feature in mine, darling, I suggest you introduce yourself properly.

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I have expensive taste, a fondness for beautiful manners, and very little patience for men who mistake kindness for a lack of authority. Fortunately, I also have a generous disposition towards those who behave themselves. Well, generous by my standards, anyway.

A little room in my diary this week. Monday: 10am–3pm Wednesday: 10am–1pm Thursday: 10am–3pm Friday: 10am–3pm For those who appreciate thoughtful encounters, good conversation and a little elegant cruelty. Kitty du Jour

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Thirteen years into this work and I still think listening is one of the most underrated skills in dominance. Not just listening to the words, but your body, your posture, your reactions, what you’re not saying, what your skin says.

I am endlessly fascinated by the little things people reveal about themselves when they feel genuinely comfortable. Curiosity remains one of my favourite professional tools. For better or worse, the dungeon reveals more about someone than a therapists couch. What would it reveal about you?

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