Sophia St.Cyr

@sophiastcyr.bsky.social

Elegant. Curious. Intensely alive. For those who value chemistry, conversation, and unforgettable experiences. https://linktr.ee/sophiast.cyr

You know I like to keep things on the funny, sexy, sassy side, but today is too heavy for that. The school shooting in my community yesterday that took the lives of young children, where the shooter was himself a child, is beyond my capacity to pretend that everything is ok.

Today's indulgences include eating all of the skin off of a freshly roasted chicken, flirting outrageously with zero intention of it going anywhere, and reading 2 chapters of a book that absolutely will NOT be contributing to any kind of learning.

I need the men to understand that if one of *us* tells you you're a good eater, that is like receiving five Michelin stars, winning a gold medal, and the Nobel peace prize. If you receive that praise, act accordingly.

You could do it on your own. The apps, the chance encounters in the wild, the dates set up by friends and family. Or you could go after what you truly want and need.

Perhaps my favorite thing about my regular suitors is that they all have a very healthy sense of what's harmful and unacceptable behavior. Not a single one of them would ever defend a rapist, or question a woman's experience of assault.

You should know if I say something funny while we're on our date I will immediately follow up with, "I'm hilarious." I am delighted by my own sense of humor and laugh at my own jokes.