Alyssa Miller 🦄👩‍✈️

@alyssam-infosec.com

Hacker, CISO, and commercial pilot. Certified Bluesky Elder. Author and International Speaker, Chief advocate of #DoBetterBeBetter Compassion and empathy are traits in short supply but necessary to make this world a better place. alyssasec.com

"Business deals are like farts: if you have to force it, it’s probably shit" I will now being using this phrase over and over in all sorts of context. Sorry, not sorry. Also not lost on me as to how well this applies to at least one recent rejection in my job search.

I've never been one to think of cars as more than machines. That was until I bought my 340i during COVID. It was the first time in my life I bought exactly the car I wanted. I love Raven and have grown very attached to her. Which makes this SUPER painful. Really hoping they'll fix her.

Black BMW 340i with collision damage down the right side from the front door through the rear bumper cover.

Reaching that point in the job search now where the anxiety is becoming a daily struggle. I wish I could say I'm stunned at how poorly companies treat candidates, but I've watched it for years. Still, being on the receiving end of it has been somewhat eye opening.

Hey everyone, I know a lot of folks are struggling but Jesse and his young family could really use some help. If you're able to offer up any amount at all, I know it would be very helpful. Please consider making a donation if you have the means gofund.me/5d2d03f05

Donate to Support EMT In Need After a Very Tough Couple of Years, organized by Jesse Gallegos

Hi! My name is Jesse. I’ll try to make this as short as possible… Jesse Gallegos needs your support for Support EMT In Need After a Very Tough Couple of Years

gofund.me

A reminder: for many, asking for help is hard. Pay attention to your friends/family. If they're going through something, no matter how sure you are that "they've got this", know that they may not just need help, they may be desperately hoping you offer it without them asking.

Some people aren't good at asking for help because they are used to being "The Helper". Throughout their life, they've expereinced and unbalanced give and take so their instinct is usually "I'll figure it out on my own".

Land at JFK on an int'l flight with a connection to a domestic flight. After passport control they make you claim checked bag, then walk a few thousand feet (with no interaction with CBP) to "re-check" you bag which is handing it to an airline person who sends it back to baggage handing. WTF??