ashley ninelives

@ashleyninelives.bsky.social

ashleyninelives.bandcamp.com 28 • they/them • pittsburgh • the sex room • diy furry music 4ever • BLACK LIVES MATTER • INDIGENOUS RIGHTS • FREE PALESTINE • ACAB

many who talk abt the woes of “community” don’t want community. they don’t want to be challenged, inconvenienced, check others or be checked. they want unmitigated access to others without “doing the work”. it unsettles me how queer folks use “community” the way the homes we fled from use “family”

idc white queers, losing access due to a pattern of behavior is not a violence. you cannot continue to approach “community” with individualistic desires and expect to come out with something worthwhile. want to be in a room full of people you owe NOTHING to? go to the fucking local dive man