🌸 Joy || Synnova’s MOM 🌸

@bigfatjoy.bsky.social

I play a straight woman in a video game but that’s the ultimate stealth lesbian move… FFXIV, other stuff occasionally.

I can’t figure out what to do to find more ppl to talk to here… I’m a natural yapper so I thought tagging things and following strangers was a good start but everything moves fast and gets no notes, even things that take hours to make. How do y’all do this. Commenting on random stuff in the tags or

Hey, I’m back on here for some reason (the reason is my good pal Kevyn). If you want a final fantasy 14 moot I’m mostly that lately. I’m updating my pinned and then I’m gonna try to post a bunch of my ffxiv backlog. Hope you’re having a good day whatever you’re up to.

I could just type some of my book ideas in here but I tend to get carried away AND think nobody’s interested so like… lemme know if you want to hear about that, its a fantasy epic that has this guy as the protag - he’s trans and he’s this world’s equivalent of a Latinx native culture.

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I do still feel really bad when I have to block people but some men really do say “x is bad and misogynist” and get hundreds of shares?? But if I tell them that they said something microaggressive to women they’re like “oh i could never” and push me out of the social circle?? Make it make sense.

hi friends. i decided to come back to bsky for a bit and test the waters. i curated my experience and im no longer interacting with people who assume the worst from me. hope you’re doing the same and hope this feels like a more approachable space now… im optimistic.

I hate to say it but I might leave ocsky and opsky. Honestly fully thinking about deleting this app and tumblr and staying away from fandom. I've had so many unkind interactions with ppl in the last year and put time into one-sided relationships and it's always fandom at the root of my suffering.