Bothhandsbuck
@bothhandsbuck.bsky.social
30 something queer leather kinky trans fellow (he/him). 🔞 Rope, impact, gear, wolf and leatherdog/pup play, power dynamics, community 🖤 Central MA. In service to @convergencenight
Looking forward to seeing everyone this month! Wear your gear or costumes. @bothhandsbuck.bsky.social will be bootblacking again.
From the archive, just been thinking about leaning into being a dog more
Come celebrate the coming of fall and leather wearing weather with us this month. 🖤🖤🖤
Happy Muir Cap Monday Trans men are still men Condoms are still safe Subs still have worth Collars still mean ownership Caps are still earned Undetectable still means untransmittable Consent is still sexy Mutual respect still rules
It is apparently international tiger day, and I've done some practice paintings recently (in various states of progress)
Winter pup (based on some old photos of me in the snow)
Let's be honest, steaming or ironing your flags is the adult thing to do.
Ryan 🍁🎃🍗@crshort81.bsky.social · 4mo agoAnnual Pride PSA 💅 #happypride #pridemonth
Repost the Leather Dachshund from Seattle Pride 1991 to be blessed this Pride Month!
A little stuck on this one but wanted to share it anyway
I'm waking up early again, back at the gym again, I hope in the next month I've made progress
Bootblack kit bag 💼 This was my biggest project to date. Over 45 hours of work (a lot of it chained), and I’m super proud of this. All for a special superior too 🙇♂️
Haven't felt this way in a while but I'm a hard working dog for the right man. Would love to hand over the leash to someone.
You know, that time of night when you need that extra hour in the middle of the night to be a dog and research leather history
Quote from Sadomasochism and the Magic Kingdom by Donald L. Miesen (3rd revision draft, Society of Janus, 1984).
![White woman in lace and velvet dress holding kneeling man’s hair. Text: [It is natural to fantasize, to play, & to distinguish fantasy from reality,
& to trust others to do so.
Even kittens naturally play at fighting,
& instinctually trust others to distinguish fantasy & reality.
SM upsets people who fear real play.
They mistrust basic human nature, on trust of which all real play is based.
Some psychologists put on a big worry whether sadomasochists can distinguish fantasy from reality. Better they should worry about people who can't play.]](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:iyfco36opjofallgh4axztsd/bafkreigrvbb6t42utn73ik72lw4ixhwhaqfhobhlnd77whnpij6ggxdvty)
Convergence this month is 5/16, and this time Weaver is bootblacking so we can work on our next class and build up the library. Bring those boots or leather gear that needs care. We miss you! Hope to see you there. In leather, the Convergence hosts
Thinking of myself as the lead sled dog. Collared to the work but leading those next to me. I lean to furry work to describe this stuff but I know there's a husky in me representing parts of my personality. You know, including all the loud howling