Chantalle Smith

@chaneyz85.bsky.social

A Librarian, history geek, mum, leftie, unionist, disabled, and LGBTQI+ ally. She/Her. Te Whanganui-a-Tara, Aotearoa ❤️💚🖤🤍

It was my turn to cook tonight, but I definitely wasn’t up to it. So we tried to get the cheapest takeaways delivered. Went with Noodle Canteen as the 8yo shares one with me. Can’t do that anymore! He ate like 3/4 of it, leaving me slightly hungry still!

Cuddled on the couch under a blanket watching Friends. I’ve either gotten sick… Or my body had been keeping it together while life around me was busy. Now that I’ve stopped, it’s decided to go meh

As much as I am enjoying lying in bed listening to the rain, it would be much nicer to still be asleep. Of course because I can now “sleep in” a bit, I keep waking ridiculously early

My feeling nice and rested from my first day off has gone out the window. The 8yo is high energy and not listening this evening. How his shoes didn’t hit me when he threw them, I have no idea…

Even if we could believe him that he can’t do this over the phone, he also says… “"This is him talking in his New Zealand First capacity," Luxon said.” Ah no, it was said in the house, where he is a government minister. You decided to make him a government minister. Grow a freaking back bone?!

Bruce Buckman@brucebuckman.bsky.social · 3d ago

Could this useless prick be any more of a useless prick? On the road FFS. You telling me the PM doesn’t have his Foreign Minister on speed dial? Absolutely lowest effort bullshit from our premiere low-effort bullshitter. www.rnz.co.nz/news/politic...

This! One thing with meltdowns, the person can’t control it. And in my experience with the 8yo, using force just makes it worse. You have to remain calm at all times. Try and get them to copy you. If you get angry back and use force, that’s what they will do too.

Allison@m-e.allison683etc.servegame.com · 4d ago

I remember when we were 11 and we had these two (clearly) neurodivergent boys in our class who were prone to meltdowns and who were *huge* for our age. The majority of our teachers would have not known how to use ‘reasonable force’ to restrain them. Everyone involved could have been seriously hurt

Oh this is absolutely terrible. Neurodivergent kids are going to be even further excluded… If this policy was in place before the 8yo was diagnosed (which the system wouldn’t do until he was 6), he would’ve been stood down multiple times in his first couple of years at school. 1/n

Act to give schools ‘reasonable force’ powers to remove students, $3000 fines for parents

Fines for parents would start at $300 but could go as high as $3000.

nzherald.co.nz

We budget about 5k a year for the 8yo. It pays for school (surprise it isn’t free like they want you to believe), uniform, holiday programmes (we both need to work to live). B4 starting school we needed to budget more for daycare. This budget excludes food, housing, other clothes & his activities😐

Abbie Jury 🌱@tikorangi.bsky.social · 4d ago

It takes an 81 year old to think that 5k a year for 3 years will incentivise women to have a baby. Somebody old enough to remember the modest family benefit in very different times.

Boy am I glad the only reason people don't have more kids these days is a lack of direct Government payment instead of depressed wages, poor working conditions, high prices of everything and a housing affordability crisis.

The response from the union is exactly what is happening. People kept asking me how I was feeling about leaving National Library. Sure, I was sad, but also knew I was leaving at the right time with everything that’s been happening. Morale is the lowest I have ever seen it there. 1/n

Public service bosses race against clock to submit job cut plans

With job losses and structural changes on the way for the public sector, unions and the opposition argue for greater transparency

newsroom.co.nz

8yo: I wish I couldn’t listen Me: why? 8yo: so I could do sign language Me: you don’t have to not hear to learn sign language 8yo: really?! And now we’ve done the alphabet together

It’s been an emotional day today. After nearly 14 years I had my last day before starting a new job in another library. I did well not to cry until I read the lovely messages in my cards ❤️

The National Library of New Zealand at night time.