Chatting With The Lightkeeper
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Blogger, Coffee Aficionado, Dominant, D/S Advocate, Podcaster, & Skier Sharing My Passion About BDSM In A Positive, Uplifting Space. Michigan Is Home. ChattingWithTheLightkeeper.com
Those that act like modern kings From business deals to kinky stings Beneath the bravado's polished sheen Lives an ego, petty, small, and mean Dominant of dominants they proclaim Each constipated scowl, all just the same A hollow, sneering, fraudulent show, Hiding beneath that spray-on domly glow
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HELL YES or HELL NO I say: What the heck With #BDSM events its: You're not serious unless you attend in-person events. Or I have enough drama in my life; I don't need gossipy cliques. Which is it? Avoidable drama or a must have? The latest episode of my pod gives honest insight. bit.ly/4fGCNP6
What Is Demisexual? Understanding Attraction That Begins With Connection - Find out more about demisexual in this week's Monday Minute. www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/demisexual-m...
What Is Demisexual? Understanding Attraction That Begins With Connection - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
Demiexual, the attraction that begins with connection is the focus of this Monday Minute. Discover what exactly is a demisexual and the noise around it.
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What do you do when you are alone running a combine at 3am? You write #poetry in your head then you speak it into your phone. This is what resulted 👇 www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/waiting-whea...
Waiting Wheat - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
What do you do when you are alone harvesting at 3am? You write poetry then you speak it into your phone. This is the result "Waiting Wheat".
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D/S contracts: some swear by them, but others will not touch them. Why? Find out what they are, what makes them a must-have, a hard no, or a maybe, so you can decide for yourself. So grab your earbuds and press play. No contract required to listen to the pod! open.spotify.com/episode/1nwV...
D/S Contracts: Non-Negotiable or Nope?
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Sapiosexual - It’s history is short Born out of internet culture but is it an identity or just a preference? The Monday Minute breaks it down 👇 www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/sapiosexual-...
Sapiosexual Meaning and the Debate - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
Unravel the meaning of sapiosexual and its implications on attraction and relationships in our digital dating landscape.
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Attraction is not uniform. This week's Monday Minute covers graysexuality and the asexual spectrum, and how they shape connection. www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/graysexual-a...
Graysexual and Asexual Basics - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
Attraction is not uniform. This week's Monday Minute covers graysexuality and the asexual spectrum, and their BDSM connection.
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No negotiation. No discussion of limits. No aftercare. What does a D/S relationship look like before any of those ideas existed? This week's article examines The Story of O and the mark it left on the lifestyle. www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/story-o-fet-...
Story of O: History, Meaning, and Influence on BDSM - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
Story of O helped redefine erotic literature. Explore its history, controversy, and lasting influence on BDSM and D/S culture.
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What do #gynesexual and #androsexual mean? Why were they invented in the first place? Why do they spark debate? The Monday Minute is where to find out👇 www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/gynesexual-a...
Gynesexual vs Androsexual: What Is the Difference? - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
What do gynesexual and androsexual mean? Explore attraction to femininity and masculinity, the debate, and why some people find them useful.
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What can an 1870 novella teach about power and desire? Actually quite a bit! Find out as Fetish Friday hits the books starting with Venus in Furs. #VenusInFurs #LeopoldVonSacherMasoch #LiteraryHistory #19thCenturyLiterature www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/venus-fet-fr...
Venus in Furs - Its Impact on BDSM History - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
Dive into Venus in Furs, a 1870 novella that helps shape the modern understanding of masochism, and D/S dynamics even today today.
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What is the difference between a preference, kink, and fetish? This week’s Fetish Friday has the answer. www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/kink-fetish-...
Kink Definition And Fetish Definition What Is The Difference - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
Stop guessing: preference is a lean, kink is a spark, fetish is a key. The no-bull breakdown of kink vs fetish.
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You do not have to be polyamorous to learn something from polyamory. This Monday Minute has lessons we can all use. www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/poly-mono-mo...
What can polyamory teach monogamous?- Chatting With The Lightkeeper
Learn how polyamory's tools for communication, jealousy, autonomy, and consent can strengthen monogamous relationships.
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Most say they don’t have a fetish, is that true? Find out in this Fetish Friday 👇 www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/common-fet-f...
Do I Have A Fetish? - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
Most people will say they do not have a fetish but is that really true? Find out in this Fetish Friday because they are more than just an attraction
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“He closed his eyes and let the silent creaks be what they always were, the oldest kind of home.” Wordsmith Wednesday’s poem is live. Some last rides take you places funerals cannot. www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/riblet-words...
Riblet Ride Out – A Poem - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
Riblet Ride Out is a new poem from Edward Volkl, where silent creaks are what they always were, the oldest kind of home.
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They’re all sadists who don’t make mistakes. Ugh, the myths about dominants. Discover the truth in this week’s holiday delayed Monday Minute. www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/myths-dom-mon/
Myths About Dominants In BDSM - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
This Monday Minute looks at the myths and misconceptions that have become attached to the role of dominants in BDSM and D/S.
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What’s the number one #fetish on #FetLife? They tried to repress it, but it still licks us today, in this week’s Fetish Friday. www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/oral-fet-fri...
The History Of Oral Sex - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
This Fetish Friday has its mouthful as it explores the history of oral sex. From pottery to prohibition discover the fascinating history behind this intimate enjoyment.
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Sometimes writing #poetry is easy; words flow like a smooth river. Others fight, not wanting to be harvested. This one battled, every word, line, and stanza. I invite you to read “The Scythe”. www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/scythe-words...
The Scythe - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
This Wordsmith Wednesday's poem feels the scraping of the scythe, the hurt of the harvest, the cold of winter, and the warmth of love and spring.
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What is the iconic BDSM connection in these films: The Godfather, Apocalypse Now, On the Waterfront, A Streetcar Named Desire, and The Wild One? The connection is real, and some are working hard to make sure you never find out why; I created this podcast episode so you can. bit.ly/48VOQ8U
Listen Now To The Podcast & Be Inspired - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
Explore the captivating world of BDSM, D/S, and kink through discussions and insights heard in the Chatting With The Lightkeeper podcast.
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What do you think of when you see someone wearing a collar? Probably that the person wearing it is in a serious relationship but did you know collars can symbolize different things? Learn more about collars, in this week’s Monday Minute. www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/collars-mond...
Collars - Understanding Collars In BDSM and D/s - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
Did you know that collars do not have a universal meaning? This Monday Minute looks at the different meanings behind collars in BDSM, D/S, and kink.
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What is one of the enduring images of #BDSM? A person impeccably dressed holding a leash, while on the other end is a person seductively posed au naturel. Discover the history behind it & why people are drawn to it, in this week’s Fetish Friday. www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/cfnm-cmnf-fr...
Understanding CFNM And CMNF In BDSM - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
This Fetish Friday looks at CFNM and CMNF in BDSM. Discover what draws people to being nude next to someone clothed.
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What does Scooby Doo and the Kentucky Derby have to do with #BDSM? This week’s Monday Minute rides in and solves the mystery of BDSM’s hidden trainer danger. www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/trainer-mond...
The Trainer Danger In BDSM - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
Does BDSM have a trainer danger? This week's Monday Minute offers an opinion on what sounds like a resource for new submissives but the reality is often different.
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Show me the MONEY! Control of wealth has long been tied to authority. So it is no wonder it has found a place in BDSM. Understand financial domination in this Fetish Friday. www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/findom-friday/
Understanding Financial Domination, Findom, In BDSM - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
What is Findom? A grounded look at financial domination in D/S, including its history, psychological appeal, and risks in this week's Fetish Friday.
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People come and go in the world of #BDSM. Some enter, pull back, & return. Others leave & never returning. Discover why people step away from the lifestyle, what brings some of them back, & why pausing is a legitimate path rather than a failure. www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/your-ultimat...
Listen Now To The Podcast & Be Inspired - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
Explore the captivating world of BDSM, D/S, and kink through discussions and insights heard in the Chatting With The Lightkeeper podcast.
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First impressions matter and you never get a second chance to make one. This Monday Minute looks at them. Discover how to make a good one in BDSM. www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/impression-m...
First Impressions In BDSM - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
You only get one chance to make a first impression is an old saying which is true today and especially important in BDSM, D/S, and kink. This Monday Minute dives in giving tips to help make your first...
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Think exhibitionism and voyeurism are new? It was around long before OnlyFans, and this week Fetish Friday peeks through the peephole of history, exploring its history and appeal. www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/watching-fet...
Exhibitionism And Voyeurism In BDSM - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
This week's Fetish Friday peeps through the keyhole of exhibitionism and voyeurism. Looking at the history, the draw, and the modern approaches as well as how it can fit within BDSM, D/S, and kink.
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This week’s Wordsmith Wednesday is a heavy one. A poem on guilt and grief. Content warning: suicide and survivor’s guilt. If you or someone you know is struggling, help is available. In the United States or Canada, call or text 988, available 24/7. www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/silence-word...
The Heavy Silence - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
This week’s Wordsmith Wednesday is a heavy one. A poem on guilt and grief. Content warning: suicide and survivor’s guilt
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Long distance D/S is common and many dynamics start this way. Distance does not weaken it or make it less real and this Monday Minute helps make distance #D/S work. www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/long-monday-...
Long Distance BDSM - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
This Monday Minute hops on a play and explores long distance relationships in BDSM with tips on how to improve them as it takes more than lust and WiFi.
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Footware is often seen as fashion accessory, in #BDSM it can be much more. Caring for it can be an act of submission, devotion, and service. This Fetish Friday explores the ritual of #bookblacking. www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/bootblacking...
Bootblacking In BDSM - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
This Fetish Friday explores the ritual of Bootblacking in BDSM. With its roots in old traditions discover how this practice empowers dominants and submissives.
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This Wordsmith Wednesday’s #poem asks…When did the world stop reading? When did we start letting mistakes breathe and breed? Have you stopped reading? Prove me wrong… www.chattingwiththelightkeeper.com/reads-poem/
Because No One Reads - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
Wordsmith Wednesday poem Because No One Reads, a poem about words, meaning, and what gets missed when they are ignored.
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