Work is annoying, ask me TMI Tuesday questions to distract me and I'll answer when I can.

Been a while since I've posted anything #FursuitFriday, so let's pop into the ol' time machine and remember a moment when I caught a @galefrostbane.bsky.social at FWA 2025. 📸: @foxyhop.bsky.social

Social Media can lead to such weird experiences, like people being super attracted to your character or the slice of you that they see online, when they wouldn't give you a second glance in real life.

To help distract me from the heat, anyone want to ask me any hot TMI Tuesday questions? Or regular questions, whatever works.

I'd like to think I've gotten pretty good about creating a calming and reassuring vibe when changing diapers. It can take some of the fun out of it when people don't get as huffy or 'excited' as they used to, but it's pretty nice to help people get used to diapers as a normal part of their life.

Just thinking about testing people who are in denial about interest in ABDL or babyfurs by getting them to say the word "Diaper" out loud. If they hesitate or blush even a little then we might as well start leading them to the changing table right now.

Important reminder: Wearing adult diapers doesn't have to be about being babied. Anyone in diapers can still be a Middle or even a Caretaker or Dom, and there's nothing about being diapered that stops you from being a top, either. It's just a (sexy) underwear choice, it doesn't limit your identity.

Caretaker Tip: Help any Littles you babysit put their favorite plushies in diapers. After all, if their best friend is wearing one, and smells like fresh baby powder, why should a Little be self conscious about being diapered?

I encourage Little and Regression coded activities with friends as a key form of mutual validation. Cartoons, coloring, having a plush nearby are things that kids were bullied or even punished for when they were young. Seeing that you're not alone, that these are okay expressions of self is healing.

Are we still doing TMITuesday? Well, if so feel free to drop me a question, here or via DM.

Diapers shouldn't just be about teasing and humiliation. There is every reason to praise someone for wearing diapers and giving them positive reinforcement. "I'm so proud of you for diapering up today." "You did such a good job with those tapes." "That diaper matches your outfit so well!"

Even after a long time being inactive on social media, one thing never changes. I only notice my typos after people have seen and reacted to them and there's no hiding my shame.

Caretaker Tip: Keep track of sources of comfort for when your Little is feeling down or overwhelmed. Swooping in with the right plush to tuck into their arms, song to queue up, or snack to feed them can really turn their whole day around and remind them that they're not facing life's troubles alone.

Caretaker Tip: Just because you don't have a changing table doesn't mean you can't improvise some cozy vibes. Behold, the Blanket Fort of Diaper Changing:

Them, visiting family: I'm so diaper brained right now but can't wear. Me, "helping": Because you know you belong in diapers. The soft, comforting feeling of your hips being hugged by secure tapes, the rustle of plastic, the familiar, safe bulk...

I know some folks like hypnosis fantasies where hypno can force them to do things they'd never do otherwise, but there also something fun about it only being used to nudge the subject towards a long denied desire, so they can be told "It only worked because YOU wanted this all along."

Last repost: I might call it corruption, but what I really mean is breaking down the inhibitions that were keeping you from living your best, true life. You were always meant to find safety in vulnerability, to embrace your little side, to be in diapers. I'm just unlocking what was always there.

Yes. This. This is what I mean.

After BFC, let me just say thanks to everyone who took the time to say hi and especially to everyone who helped make me feel included. Sadly I didn't really get to attend any of the events I wanted to this year, so I'm sorry to the friends who were running panels, I wish I could have stopped by.

So while I've occasionally joked about charging for babysitting services like bedtime stories, changes, all that good stuff, in all honesty the idea is pretty uncomfortable for me. Caretaking is all about the emotional connection for me, and faking that for cash just would not work for me at all.

A quick word of advice for folks looking for attention from caretakers: Sometimes you're gonna have to make the first move. I know that's tough and scary, but us Big types can't always tell if folks are interested, so a polite introduction to see if there's maybe mutual interest can be helpful.

It's cute how some boys never grow out of blushing during a diaper change any more than they grow out of their diapers. Good thing Mister Shadow is all about making the Littles he babysits comfortable even in these tender moments. 🦊: @kit-stripes.bsky.social 🎨: www.furaffinity.net/user/hokkigai

Once again, the A in ABDL stands for adult, which means accepting that adults like different things. Please don't try to tell people that they "have to" express an interest in this kink or community in the same way you do. It's fine to give people a safe space to explore, but don't force things.

Keep your friends close, and your bratty delinquent raccoon friends closer. You can see me demonstrating here with Strut, who managed to behave the whole time I was giving him uppies, at least until I had to put him down again. 🦝: @nite.bsky.social 📸: @smallishwolf.bsky.social #fursuitfriday

Oh yeah I'm gonna be at @babyfurcon.com next week, who am I gonna see there?

Some of the most humbling, and fulfilling, moments I've had as a caretaker have been when people let me know that something I've done or said has helped them experience a Little headspace despite anxiety or self consciousness. Those are huge hurdles for many people and it feels really good to help.

Caretaker Tip: Don't be afraid to interrupt your Little's gaming session for a diaper check or change. It's a good reminder of what they're wearing and of their real age even if you let them pay big kid games. Bonus points for loudly announcing what you're doing so any friends on voice know, too.

When I first started it in the fandom, I constantly heard that artists were just being bombarded by folks faking friendship for free art, and I resolved to never be that guy, but I think I overcorrected. I feel like I ended up too distant and cautious for years and I probably messed up friendships.

"Aww, look how cute you are, kneeling there with your collar, harness, and diaper. Doesn't it feel good to know that I'm holding your leash, telling you what to do, what to think? I thought so. Now then, let's see how well trained our new Service Puppy is after finishing Obedience School."

Now I'm not saying that I tease just because I think huffy pouting is cute, but I'm sure implying it real hard. And hey, just look(or listen), he really is a crinkle butt! 🐺: @iannaxieas.bsky.social 🎨: @applepup.bsky.social