You can't consent while drunk. Assuming your relationship has changed needs to be communicated. You can still bring pain onto others even if you didn't intend for it to become that way. Don't assume. Communicate. Clarify. If you don't do that, you'll always hurt someone.
This statement reflects my perspective on the situation, along with the evidence and statements that I believe support it. This is an extremely sensitive matter, and I ask that you read it thoughtfully and refrain from harassing or targeting anyone involved. docs.google.com/document/d/1...