Sarah (Beth) Southern

@sarahbsouthern.bsky.social

Writer (mostly essays) / Graduate Student + GTA / Sourdough Novice / Nonfiction Editor @lastsyllablelit.bsky.social / She/Her /📍San Diego Substack: sarahsouthern.substack.com

The best thing I did for my mental health last night was slip my phone onto airplane mode. I spent the entirety of last weekend doomscrolling instead of the legion of actual productive things I needed to accomplish 😭 But I refuse to let my anxiety ruin this semester 💪🏻

I wanted this space to be my literary refuge where I’d encounter other writers, publications, and books, share my own work, discover abundant craft + beauty. I thought Bluesky could be an oasis against the loudness of every other app, the dreadful, depressive news permeating every digital turn.

I think what makes me saddest about whatever is happening with social media (not just TikTok even) is that I still don’t have consistent IRL community. Social media has helped me survive long swaths of loneliness, months when my husband was deployed and I had no one.

Read widely. Read beyond what’s “allowed.” Read work that makes you squirm. Read perspectives that challenge your assumptions. As someone raised in fundamentalism, I didn’t read widely until far too late. It’s never too late and still, I wish I’d started sooner. I wish I’d known better.

Distanced myself from an essay for a few weeks. Returned to it thinking I’d hate it after time away. Read it again and wept because I think it’s the best thing I’ve written at this point in my writing life. As someone who rarely trusts her voice, it feels good to finally say: “this is good work” 😭