Badly Licked Bear

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Educator, Writer, Clown Sex/BDSM Educator & 🌶️ Human Mx. Strap Sucker Los Angeles 2025 Leatherdyke, Auntie, Warlady-In-Waiting badlylickedbear.substack.com

With Mary Harron's 1996 I Shot Andy Warhol back in theatres after three decades in distribution hell, I have questions, particularly about the use of Candy Darling as a human crowbar to access the life of the 20th century's most radical feminist and TERF.

Hot Take: I Shot Andy Warhol

The biopic of the RadFem saint and SCUM Manifesto author Valerie Salonas as bullshit, Lily Talyor's performance of a lifetime, and Candy Darling as a human crowbar.

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From On Our Backs, Fall 1986, a full-page ad taken out by the AIDS Project of the East Bay and the Pacific Center for Human Growth, the oldest operating LGBTQ+ center in the Bay Area, thanking the lesbian community for their support during the AIDS crisis.

This one has everything: A dissolving strap-on, talking shit on Neil Gaiman, SEX GHOSTS, a divinatrix-turned-sci-fi-legend, TRANSSEXUAL REALISM, a vertical slice of 1993 Queer life, a wormhole of footnotes, a severed head...you know, Doom Patrol shit. Hope you like it. 💋

Doom Patrol, Kate Godwin, and the Birth of Trans Realism

In 1993, Rachel Pollack gave birth to Kate Godwin, aka Coagula, the first trans character in superhero comics written by a trans person. Why? How? Into what universe? Who was Kate Godwin?

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I suppose I should share this rant-not-rant based on my many, many, thousands, even of recent interactions with TERFs, transphobes, and anti-trans activists on other platforms. My conclusion: They all hate women and have found the one outlet that lets them do so, publicly, and without consequence.

Why Be A TERF? Why Be Transphobic? Why Be Anti-Trans, Anyways?

Or, how to hate women and fantasize about their pain, suffering, and death in a socially acceptable way.

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"Friends" is a beloved American sitcom that aired from 1994 to 2004, following six young adults—Rachel, Ross, Monica, Chandler, Joey, and Phoebe—living in New York City. The show explores their friendships, romances, careers, and personal growth over ten seasons.

The Cast of Friends in the episode "The One With The Thing"
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Just noting the emphasis on defining transgender identity as a mental health disorder, "gender dysphoria," which serves only one purpose - relegating trans and gender diverse people to the category of sick, ill, diseased, crazy, insane, undesirable, vermin, subhuman, and otherwise less than.

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Helen Lewis is back in The Atlantic with "Youth Gender Medicine Is Indeed Up for Debate". It is a masterclass in manufacturing consent, framing the capitulation of medical bodies to political terror as a calm "return to reason."

A screenshot of an article header from The Atlantic, dated February 12, 2026. The headline reads, "The Tide Goes Out on Youth Gender Medicine," with the sub-headline, "American doctors are no longer united on the wisdom of medicalizing gender dysphoria in minors." The article is by Helen Lewis. Below the text is an illustration by Matteo Giuseppe Pani featuring a row of four stylized profile silhouettes of a face, transitioning from a dark, solid purple on the left to a faded, grainy white on the right.

If you see this, don't participate. It's a rigged study by Lisa Littman and unethical researcher J. Michael Bailey meant to undermine access to care. Spread the word.

“Screenshot of a promoted Reddit post by u/AYAGDOS. The post reads: ‘Navigating gender dysphoria? Join our confidential, cross-country study of 18–25 year olds to tell your story, challenge preconceptions, and have YOUR experience reflected in the science.’ Below is a banner graphic with the Northwestern University logo and the text ‘TRANS OR GENDERQUEER? SHARE YOUR STORY.’ The image shows a close-up of a hand with light pink nail polish, partially painted blue, held up against a blurred background. A link to ayagdos.org and a ‘Learn More’ button appear at the bottom, along with Reddit vote and share icons.”

"You know Bovino leaving won't st..." Yes I fucking know. I shipped 800 whistles across the country today. I'll ship another 500 tomorrow. I will not stop until they are stopped and also I will take the fucking W when one of their top fash fucks gets the boot.