Deedee Redletter
@deedee-redletter.bsky.social
I write "Sex in the Future" on OnlySky. I hold degrees in philosophy and information science. My special interest has been human sexuality since I was three years old.
No man is an island: Tip of the iceberg, by @deedee-redletter.bsky.social Sex abusers like Jeffrey Epstein exist in an ecosystem of impunity that enables them. #epsteinfiles #crime #inequality onlys.ky/tip-of-the-i...
No man is an island: Tip of the iceberg
Sex abusers like Jeffrey Epstein exist in an ecosystem of impunity that enables them.
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Nobody calls it “Kissfest”, by @deedee-redletter.bsky.social Practical tips and advice for how ethically non-monogamous people can improve their sexual safety game. onlys.ky/nobody-calls... #sex #relationships #publichealth
Sexual networks: Nobody calls it “Kissfest”
How non-monogamous people can improve their sexual safety game.
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Sexual networks: Theory and research, by @deedee-redletter.bsky.social Knowing the structure of our social (and sexual) interactions lets us design effective public health policy. onlys.ky/sexual-netwo... #sex #publichealth #relationships
Sexual networks: Theory and research
Knowing the structure of our social (and sexual) interactions lets us design effective public health policy.
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That was fast: Malus ex machina, by @deedee-redletter.bsky.social AI research is accelerating, and the new "agentic" AIs just might be truly conscious. How scared should we be? onlys.ky/malus-ex-mac... #ai #technology
That was fast: Malus ex machina
Have we created truly conscious AIs, and how scared should we be if we have?
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That was fast: Why machines are heartless, by @deedee-redletter.bsky.social LLMs don't have emotions, however convincing their simulations of them may be. To put it another way: sorry, your chatbot girlfriend doesn't love you. onlys.ky/why-machines... #relationships #ai
That was fast: Why machines are heartless
You can't have a relationship with a chatbot that doesn't have emotions and can't grant or deny consent.
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The future of sex education: Internet sex culture, by @deedee-redletter.bsky.social If we don't teach our kids about sex, they're going to learn from internet porn, and that's way worse. onlys.ky/the-future-o... #sexed #internet
The future of sex education: Internet sex culture
It's better to teach kids age-appropriate sex ed than to have them learn from the internet.
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The future of sex education: Academic environments, by @deedee-redletter.bsky.social Teenagers are having sex, no matter what. Teaching them how to do it well and wisely helps them have better experiences, and also protects them from predators. onlys.ky/the-future-o... #sexed #education
The future of sex education: Academic environments
Better sex ed both helps and protects young people.
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The future of sex education: Sex training, by @deedee-redletter.bsky.social Cutting the Gordian knot, or why some things can only be learned by doing. onlys.ky/the-future-o... #sex #relationships
The future of sex education: Sex training
Some things can only be learned by doing.
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Sex shamans: Intro to emotional alchemy, by @deedee-redletter.bsky.social Providing care to others can help us learn to better accept care for ourselves. onlys.ky/intro-to-emo... #sex #relationships
Sex shamans: Intro to emotional alchemy
Providing care to others can help us learn to better accept care for ourselves.
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A rose toy by any other name, by @deedee-redletter.bsky.social How sex can be part of a mindful strategy of personal healing and growth. onlys.ky/a-rose-toy-b... #sex #relationships
Sex shamans: A rose toy by any other name
How sex can be part of a mindful strategy of personal healing and growth.
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Sex shamans: The revolving bedroom door, by @deedee-redletter.bsky.social We can view the endings of romantic attachments as a completed project rather than a failure. onlys.ky/the-revolvin... #sex #relationships #lgbtq #polyamory
Sex shamans: The revolving bedroom door
We can view the endings of romantic attachments as a completed project rather than a failure.
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Depathologizing difference: STI stigma, by @deedee-redletter.bsky.social We should reject the just-world fallacy and stop stigmatizing diseases that are easily treatable. onlys.ky/sti-stigma/ #sex #relationships #health
Depathologizing difference: STI stigma
We should reject the just-world fallacy and stop stigmatizing diseases that are easily treatable.
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Depathologizing difference: Drive disparity, by @deedee-redletter.bsky.social We'll all have more happiness and fulfillment when we can recognize individual differences in sex drive. onlys.ky/drive-dispar... #sex #relationships
Depathologizing difference: Drive disparity
We'll all have more happiness and fulfillment when we can recognize individual differences in sex drive.
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Slid it in under the door, but it still counts! New "Sex in the Future" on OnlySky (art coming later): onlys.ky/the-glass-is...
