DivinePenPurity

@divinepenpurity.bsky.social

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I feel like I typically have more energy than dis in my statements but dis exhausted me. I'm a working girl so I'll keep on doin my thing but I really need da community t' see clearly now how wildly unsafe it can be, even when individuals in it are trying not to be. Everyone take care of yaselves.

DivinePenPurity@divinepenpurity.bsky.social · 2mo ago

I shall make a call t' action once more fa people t' check themselves when they wanna call someone out. Rather it is spontaneous or planned out: take your time. Ask yaself questions about safety for all parties dat could be affected 'n do what's smartest, not what hits hardest.

I shall make a call t' action once more fa people t' check themselves when they wanna call someone out. Rather it is spontaneous or planned out: take your time. Ask yaself questions about safety for all parties dat could be affected 'n do what's smartest, not what hits hardest.

DivinePenPurity@divinepenpurity.bsky.social · 2mo ago

Look, dis shit is complicated 'n I ain't no queen of callouts 'n I don't want t' be. When I say names, it ain't t' drag but t' put up examples of what not t' do cuz lo 'n behold these situations evolve cuz of negligence 'n a need t' be right over a need t' be safe.

Look, dis shit is complicated 'n I ain't no queen of callouts 'n I don't want t' be. When I say names, it ain't t' drag but t' put up examples of what not t' do cuz lo 'n behold these situations evolve cuz of negligence 'n a need t' be right over a need t' be safe.

DivinePenPurity@divinepenpurity.bsky.social · 2mo ago

Another rule: don't take bullets. Love ya friends but stay outta da way if dey are caught in some shit. Dis ain't no anime, sometimes your words can be used t' make da situation worse fa da person you're defending 'n make yaself a target when you coulda been safe. Protect yaself first always.

Another rule: don't take bullets. Love ya friends but stay outta da way if dey are caught in some shit. Dis ain't no anime, sometimes your words can be used t' make da situation worse fa da person you're defending 'n make yaself a target when you coulda been safe. Protect yaself first always.

DivinePenPurity@divinepenpurity.bsky.social · 2mo ago

On top a dat, you risk soundin bigoted or disrespectful yaself. Not everyone is gonna agree dat 2 different forms of bigotry are equal or comparable 'n you risk opening a bigger can of worms in doing so. I'm happy dat none of dis devolved into oppression olympics from what I've seen.

On top a dat, you risk soundin bigoted or disrespectful yaself. Not everyone is gonna agree dat 2 different forms of bigotry are equal or comparable 'n you risk opening a bigger can of worms in doing so. I'm happy dat none of dis devolved into oppression olympics from what I've seen.

DivinePenPurity@divinepenpurity.bsky.social · 2mo ago

One such rule is t' not use compqrative metaphors when discussing bigotry. Just speak directly towards the realities of oppression, bigotry, and casual harm. It's simply cuz you don't know how people will react t' the reality of their hurt being used against em t' make em see your point.

One such rule is t' not use compqrative metaphors when discussing bigotry. Just speak directly towards the realities of oppression, bigotry, and casual harm. It's simply cuz you don't know how people will react t' the reality of their hurt being used against em t' make em see your point.

DivinePenPurity@divinepenpurity.bsky.social · 2mo ago

Last time I had t' say dis, a callout was done without care for who would be affected by it. Now I have t' say dat there are things you definitely don't do if you want t' make a point t' someone simply cuz what you do do might make shit worse.

But I've said it before 'n I'll say it again: check how you callout people! I know he fucked up in execution cuz a black femmes almost died. Everything we need t' know about how terribly shit was handled is all in dat detail. It's a good example of how intentions must be met with caution and tact.

DivinePenPurity@divinepenpurity.bsky.social · 2mo ago

I'l say dis first (and I'll bsay it in proper English so there's no misunderstanding): There is nothing wrong with doing a public correction or education in microaggressions and casual or normalized use of discriminatory and bigoted language. Billy wasn't wrong for that.

I'l say dis first (and I'll bsay it in proper English so there's no misunderstanding): There is nothing wrong with doing a public correction or education in microaggressions and casual or normalized use of discriminatory and bigoted language. Billy wasn't wrong for that.

DivinePenPurity@divinepenpurity.bsky.social · 2mo ago

Billy has a lotta friends 'n connects dat I also have so I know if I say sum'n about him it'll ripple to dem 'n I am in da business of making sure dat people don't get negatively impacted in case dis shit goes a thousand ways wrong as it very much.

Billy has a lotta friends 'n connects dat I also have so I know if I say sum'n about him it'll ripple to dem 'n I am in da business of making sure dat people don't get negatively impacted in case dis shit goes a thousand ways wrong as it very much.

DivinePenPurity@divinepenpurity.bsky.social · 2mo ago

I wanted t' wait til @billyyandereva.bsky.social made a statement t' fully have my thoughts 'n t' make sure dat I ain't about t' drag a person t' hell without da courtesy of hearin em out. I was fumin but I had t' be mindful of who I could hurt in addin my voice t' da situation.

Waking up to the thought of someone claiming me as I stroke her down. Legs wrapped around me, her hand on my neck, all the ways she's calling me hers, the kisses, the sucking of my lips, hands on my ass, scratches on my back... all until "I'm yours" is the only level of English I know.

I love the art of begging as a submissive. The art of displaying my surrender, my need for my domme. Letting my control and restraint slip so she knows I'm getting desperate, just how she likes. It's the pathetic little pleases, muffled whimpers, all a song for her that she loves to hear.

So here I am always tryna keep my biases in check n makin sure I don't let da chip in my shoulder lead my words n perspectives. I feel as long as I keep up wit a community dat can hold me accountability, I'll be fine- even better if I maintain my personal code of kindness, love, n play.

DivinePenPurity@divinepenpurity.bsky.social · 3mo ago

Dat is t' say that there's a consisted risk that take from bein within so many oppressed intersections dat I can end up wit a heavily skewed perspective on my place in da world. How oppression shows up in my life could have me talkin' n doin wrong if I ain't careful.

Dat is t' say that there's a consisted risk that take from bein within so many oppressed intersections dat I can end up wit a heavily skewed perspective on my place in da world. How oppression shows up in my life could have me talkin' n doin wrong if I ain't careful.

DivinePenPurity@divinepenpurity.bsky.social · 3mo ago

So a bit of reflection: I have a level of fire fa stuff cuz I'm constantly aware of how much better I want to be. I'm always tryna keep myself in check cuz being a black disabled transfemme wit no income means dat I'm in a bubble of "I can'ts" that I have t' constantly pop.

So a bit of reflection: I have a level of fire fa stuff cuz I'm constantly aware of how much better I want to be. I'm always tryna keep myself in check cuz being a black disabled transfemme wit no income means dat I'm in a bubble of "I can'ts" that I have t' constantly pop.

Now, y'all wanna know what's crazy? Breb told me she was in a situation befo'. She told me lightly bout it n I didn't think t' dig any deeper fa reasons related t' how drama is handled in dis community. She told me dat there were multiple people in dis community who knew who she was.