9 months of chastity training. 4,213 total standards to date. I look forward to volume 2 📝
M. Xuan
@dominaxuan.com
Silver-Tongued Professional Dominant | they/she | Wait on my every word...
Some people want a pair of Louboutin’s Kate or Hot Chick heels. I want their collab with Matières Fécales.
Babes and toys alike, please give me your recs for my Paris trip this fall. Art, food, shopping, and kink suggestions are welcome!
THE SPREADSHEET is back online now hosting using Proton (Google took it down) drive.proton.me/urls/Z216J4S...
My latest Substack about my travels to TP. HCM and Singapore is now out!
Got to see Rosalía live last night!! Obsessed with her voice, the staging, Yudania Gómez's conducting, the choreography by (LA)HORDE, the waves of bass blasting from the speakers and through my chest...
Submission and service is often conflated. While they can certainly happen in conjunction with each other, their meanings are not interchangeable.
Spent my first night out in LA at an artist lecture by Panteha Abareshi, as part of the One Archives’ current show, NEED ME. A fascinating talk about the un-s*xing and f*tishization of the disabled body for the pleasure/use of the abled bodied onlooker and the ways their work subverts that.
Officially back in Los Angeles! Expect phone lines on and correspondences answered by next week.
My time in SEA is now coming to a close. I'll see you soon LA! More glimpses and insights from my travels are in the works––until then, vicariously enjoy Sài Gòn's cafe scene.
My project, the Black Leatherdyke Calendar still needs your help! Our fundraiser raised $2541, but our goal is 4,000. Please donate if you can and share far & wide! Thank you ❤️🖤💙
Hearing my peers' glowing reviews of The Maids at St. Ann's Warehouse makes my desire to see it even stronger. Hmmm, if only I were whisked off to NYC before its last performance in mid-June. Attentive playthings who've read this story of mine understand how significant this play is to me:
New travel plans for the rest of the year! 🇨🇳Chengdu: 3 - 10 Jun 🇭🇰Hong Kong: 2 - 6 Jul 🇺🇸SF: July 12 - 19 Jul 🇺🇸SF + LA/Seattle: Sep (TBC) 🇺🇸NYC: Nov (TBC)
Spending my final days abroad in my beloved TP. HCM, just in time for my birthday next week. Wishing for more travel, a leather bullwhip, and patrons for my upcoming photoshoot ideas ♥️
Some of my favorite dates are museum dates! Recently spent an afternoon at the National Gallery Singapore with the incomparable @lucythemistress.bsky.social
A belated recap of my time in Singapore 🇸🇬 Thank you to the fellow Dommes –– @goddessashley.bsky.social, @lucythemistress.bsky.social, Mistress Wei, Queen Cynthia, Mistress Suzuran, Ms Lilith, Domina Delilah –– and subs who made my visit so special. I'll be back soon!
I’m currently planning a trip to Europe this October. Should I also make pit stops in Boston and NYC?
Dinner is served w/ @cococeleste.bsky.social 🍽️ Photographer: Lanee Bird Hair and beauty: Patrick Santa Ana Producer: Lenne Chai Production Assistant: Nathan Figueroa
OOTO. I’m now off to Southeast Asia! During these next 1.5 months away, I will be taking a break from scene building and D/s dynamics in order to revamp other aspects of this work—whenever I’m not busy exploring, of course! Back to my regularly scheduled programming in June.
Always a treat to spend time with the ever captivating @cleoouyang.bsky.social and share what we've each been desiring. Now which dutiful s-b is up to the task of supporting our creative ambitions?
Dinner is served w/ @cococeleste.bsky.social 🍽️ Photographer: Lanee Bird Hair and beauty: Patrick Santa Ana Producer: Lenne Chai Production Assistant: Nathan Figueroa