Dom
@domnibear.bsky.social
Gaymer 🎮 | NB 🏳️⚧️ | Ace | Bear 🐻 | Baker 🎂 | Tap Dancer 🪩 | Theatre Lover 🎭 | Mathematical Coder 🧮 They/Them
And just so we're queer, being demisexual does not mean I can't pursue relationships with open or polyamorous people. To limit me via your assumptions of my identity is acephobic and we really need to give it the same seriousness that we do with any other form of discrimination!
Healing really isn't linear. 6 months on from a situationship, I find myself dipping into sadness/regret over what could have been never coming to fruition. Especially when you find out they made their decision on false information. Regardless, I guess that miscommunication validates the outcome.
I want to love that I’m demisexual, cause it’s fundamentally who I am. But there are somethings that just make it feel like such a curse. I’ll get there. I guess it’s a goal for 2026.
Perfectionism and going to the gym is such a volatile combo! And I’m not even talking about aesthetics. It’s the constant anxiety of if I’m doing things correctly or effectively!
On the rare occasions I do have sex, I would like to be thought of as an ace in the hole. Tysm. #asexualhumour
Listening to chill game music to create a nice, productive studying atmosphere. Problem: it makes me want to game.
a cartoon of a chicken with sweat drops on it 's face
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Stuck in full out job apps and uni study hell for the month, out of necessity. It’s starting to wear me down. Share cute pet pics/funny things/something you are passionate or proud about to lift my spirits!
This has been an earworm for a few months… I feel Im gonna have to sing it at karaoke to get it out of my system! youtu.be/fBY0bFYHBMg?...
Just In Case (Demo) | Why Am I So Single? Music Video
YouTube video by Why Am I So Single?
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Queer people don’t need allies, we need champions, we need guardians, advocates, representatives. We need you to tell your transphobic siblings that they’re wrong Queer people did not invent the discrimination against us: we are victims of a problem we did not create, and cannot solve for you
Me: *vaguely gestures to the day* The existential dread is strong in this one.
Me: I’m near the end of my game. Might as well stay up a little and finish it… *intermission music* Birds: Good Morning! It’s morning! You played through the night! Me: But at least I have golden dice in BG3… #honourmode #bg3 #iykyk
a 20 sided dice with the number 10 on it
Alt: A 20 sided dice is rolled to pass a skill check of 10. The roll is a natural 20 - a critical success.
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I’m so buzzing for The Traitors finale. Definitely in my late 30s if this is my idea of a banging Friday night
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If you hear Last Christmas but it’s not sung by Wham, does it count as losing Whamagedon? #wham #lastchristmas #whamagedon
I’ve not been on TheApps™️ for a while but with all this ghosting and all these ignored applications during this job search, it sure feels like I’m still on ‘em! #ghosting #datingapps #jobsearch
When maps says it will take you 35mins to walk but you take 20. 💅🏻 #queerthings
My #ps5 updated to booting up with the original PlayStation start sound! I was not expecting to be hit so squarely in the nostalgia today @playstation.com !
Time to find out, “why am I so single?”! jk, I know why but the musical better be good!
I wish I had the confidence/obliviousness of people who like to stop walking in entrances and intersections 😅