Not sure I agree but good challenge to much current thinking. What think you @myhorridparent ? Surely key point is we don't get to chose our parents so think how to benefit from goods and address the bads from their behaviour will surely benefit all of us giftarticle.ft.com/giftarticle/...
The merit of a monstrous parent
Learning to navigate a charismatic but chaotic father prepped me for life in the real world
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