maxelle talena

@dysphoria.bsky.social

poser girl who cries a lot

I hate how every time I’ve said something like “ you have to transition to be Trans “ People accuse me of saying “you need to get on HRT or come out publicly” They define transition as solely external process and a privilege And then accuse me of gatekeeping Or being mean

recently seeing a string of pre/post transition pics with captions a kin to. “I was happy but I realized I would be happier You don’t need to have dysphoria” and as someone who at times was very happy being a boy it still seems like a willfully disingenuous take with good intentions, but ..

Painkillers and a lapsed T gel prescription have dulled my paraphiliac lust to the point that making plans to dom Produces the kind of bemused cautious excitement that I imagine coworkers feel when invited to a rage room

I feel so off Whenever I attend at Trans events with a lot of nü metal parking lot vibes I’m not used simultaneously being incredibly off put by the aesthetic, the interactions, and honestly a lot of people while wholeheartedly longing for a better life for every one Of them

Can one of you girls who makes things Internet happen, Make a website which helps spool Spotify family memberships if you go from individual to splitting one six ways you’re going from $13 a month to 3.50 you could buy a new album on bandcamp every month with your savings harm reduction is valid

I’ve spent a lot of effort explaining sensationalist media scaring my mutual so I’m glad anger about bad journalism but the problem is way deeper than that I mean if people actually read the article articles and thought about them for a bit, they would mostly be dead on arrival

I think it’s over simplistic and kind of bullshit to just say we have to put our differences aside and just focus on people who overly hate us I am really troubled by the media literacy of our online community sometimes. Im still responsible bringing more negativity into these situations