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I have accomplished most of the goals I had for the year, so it’s time to start planning for next year. So far I’m putting a 4 day hike on the AT and then hiking the West Highland Way on the list.

Starting the day with my mango, banana, peanut butter, flax seed, Greek yogurt, hemp seed, soy milk smoothie. So delicious. Ooos sorry I dribbled a little on the front. 🫢

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I also have a lot of empathy for anyone struggling with self image. And just now I'm starting to understand more about the power of non-judgmentalism and the space it opens for kindness. Those two are a powerful force. And when two meet and have it operating in both directions... WOW.

Basically I think I'm just more confident in general, and more comfortable with my appearance. The start of this year I was not happy with what I saw in the mirror. Now I can still see there is room for improvement (always will be), but I can also appreciate the progress.

I don't know if I'm just inspired or completely lost my mind and spiraling into self absorption, but I've been taking more selfies lately. And NSFW ones, which I have no idea why. Harmless fun I guess. Maybe this is normal when you are exposed to so many beautiful and photogenic people here. :/

Tim Curry and Dolly Parton have taught us not only that you should be bigger, weirder, gayer, and freakier, but also that those qualities are what people will love about you. The things that make you strange and amazing are the things that will resonate with other strange and amazing people

Words posted by one of my friends but completely agree with them: My life is improved, made more vibrant and colorful, by the lgbtq people in my life. Thank you for you! I love you and want you to be whole and happy!

Hygiene Tips for Men who want to be hotter 😚~ 🧵 1. Embrace learning from women and from queer people - including queer men. If this is uncomfortable for you to do bc of your internalized homophobia - cool. Good to realize, great moment to address that!!