Why do chronic illnesses have to be so.....chronic? 😅🫠
Emily Duffy Therapy
@emilyduffytherapy.bsky.social
She/Her A queer, ambiamorous, suspected neurodivergent, and chronically ill woman ✨️ Online Integrative Therapist in UK I work with identity e.g. sexuality, gender, neurodivergence, chronic illness, and mental health 💚 www.emilyduffytherapy.co.uk
The doctor who claimed that vaccines cause autism lost his medical license for faking for the study. But his lies and the damage he did to public health persist long after his paper was pulled. This is why science communication is so difficult; all it takes is one grifter.
Ambiamory is the ability to be content in either monogamous or non-monogamous relationships. How I would describe it is: Non-monogamy is wanting and desiring romantic and/or sexual relationships with multiple people at the same time........
What's a way chronic illness has impacted you that you weren't expecting? Mine is singing! If my fibro is flared, even slightly, my throat and lungs just don't work the same, so songs I can sing with ease on my good days become a challenge with a wobbly voice and bad breathing 🙃
New blog alert - 8 Types of Grief (And Why Loss Isn't Just About Death) This post covers different types of grief we can experience through our lives such as disenfranchised grief, anticipatory grief, compunded grief, collective grief, etc. #emilyduffytherapy #grief #loss #therapy #typesofgrief
8 Types of Grief (And Why Loss Isn't Just About Death)
There are so many different types of grief and I'm going to go through 8 different types to give more of an overview of how we can experience grief in our life and try to take the "taboo" away from a ...
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I'm now listed on Poly Friendly 💚 www.polyfriendly.org/entry/7764_e...
Emily Duffy - Psychotherapists - Licensed or Registered from UK-All
I work with individuals who are UK residents (due to insurance reasons). I work online with video, phone, or email sessions. I work with 18+ adults. I work with identity, GSRD, ND, and chronically ill...
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My heart goes out to those impacted in Berlin Pride and to the wider queer community. I stand in mournful solidarity with my queer siblings 💚💔🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
When you see a spider in your house. Name it Cecil Remember Cecilia is also a name Then remember this song that you've not heard for 15+ years. Aren't brains fun! youtu.be/e5uei2AFEaQ
Simon & Garfunkel - Cecilia (Audio)
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Feeling the grief waves today..... So why I'm choosing to play a game about the after life is beyond me 😅 But I'm taking it slow. Doing gardening. Playing games. Chilling with my other dog. Drinking tea out my fave mug. Restoring my soul a little bit ✨️ How're you looking after you today? 💚
I'm so fed up of seeing the "X is a mental illness" narrative. Just because you don't undersrand something or "agree" with it, doesn't make it a mental illness.
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What is a safe space in therapy? 💚 Just because you deem yourself a "safe space" doesn't automatically mean that you are. Safety can look different for everyone, it can be fluid and relational. It can change depending on who's in front of you. www.emilyduffytherapy.co.uk/post/safe-sp...
Diversity is beautiful. I know therapy can't remove the patriarchy, oppressive systems, and capitalism. But it can be a space to explore who you are and how you can live as your authentic self, however that looks. #therapy #emilyduffytherapy #audrelorde #quote #diversity
Another amazing testimonial for my CPD 🎉 I'm blown away by the feedback I get for both of my CPD courses. I really do try to put my all into them, so it's amazing to get feedback like this. Check them out here - www.emilyduffytherapy.co.uk/courses
Want a space to talk through the grief of chronic illness? To learn how to talk to yourself more compassionately? To undestand yourself better? To challenge your perspective on life? To feel heard and be seen? Feel free to get in touch and book a consultation to start sessions with me 💚
Emily Duffy Therapy | Counselling Online | Queer affirming, multiamory/non-monogamy affirming, neurodivergence affirming, fat affirming, chronic illness support, and mental health support
Emily Duffy Therapy is a qualified integrative therapist based in Waltham Cross, UK. Offering online therapy. I adapt my way of working to your preferences in a collaborative way. Majority of my work ...
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How have I only just found Survival of the Thickest!? Loving it 💚🫶
New blog: What is a triad? 💚 The post explores what a triad is, the complexities and difficulties in having an ethical triad, how you might navigate in your relationship(s), and includes further resources too. Check it out now and let me know what you think #polyam #triads #emilyduffytherapy
What is a Triad?
So, What is a Triad? A triad is a type of relationship found in non-monogamous dynamics. It is where 3 people are mutually dating each other. This can be a closed off triad/relationship where no...
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I was weirdly thinking about how I haven't done any content around non-monogamy in a while and started to write this only to realise it's #nonmonogamyweek this week!! This post looks at compersion, the trap in non-monogamous relationships, how to get out of the trap and then further resources.
The Compersion Trap in Non-Monogamy
Compersion is sometimes called the opposite of jealousy in the non-monogamy world. Essentially it is feeling happy for someone else's happiness. But in non-monogamy there can feel like a pressure to f...
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My latest testimonial for Working with Chronically Ill Clients in Therapy 💚 "This is a really comprehensive course. offering well-researched content as well as practical information and a lived experience perspective. Highly recommended!"
CPD Chronic Illness | Emily Duffy Therapy
CPD on working with Chronically ill clients which outlines the basics of chronic illness, living with chronic illness, stigma and intersectionality, ways of working and adjusting your practice.
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CW - pet loss, cancer, anticipatory grief I took some time off recently as I had to say goodbye to my Arty dog. He lost a 13 month battle with lymphoma. We did all we could, but unfortunately it was his time to rest.
It's disability pride month 💚 Disability isn't a slur or a bad word and yet growing up it always felt like it! There was an element of not to look or talk about disability, like it was taboo or lesser than. The kind of out of sight out of mind mentality.
I've had some space open up 💚 You can book a consultation with me here - www.emilyduffytherapy.co.uk/book-online
Book Online | Remote Sessions |Emily Duffy Therapy
Book a consultation online with Emily Duffy Therapy. This is a remote session via video for 45minutes at £30. It is a chance to talk more about what you want from counselling, ask me any questions, a...
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It's here!!! 🥳🥳 My course is officially released after being reviewed and edited. Check it out here - www.emilyduffytherapy.co.uk/challenge-pa...
You already exist and you matter 💚 Yes, it can be comforting and reassuring to jave validation from external sources. You don't need to stop accepting or that in. But you are valid regardless of that! You don't need that external validation in order for it to be valid. Be you 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
It's pride month you beautiful beings 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ Thinking about pride is bringing up a lot for me this year. It's always been a bittersweet feeling but with all that's going on in our world it feels especially heavy.
To anyone who doubts the profound impact an online community can have and the impact of your words, check out "the remarkable life of Ibelin" So bittersweet 🥲
Well it finally happened. Me: I've put my glasses somewhere! *frantically looking around* Partner: you're wearing them 🤦 😂😂😂 I full on belly laughed
The type of therapist I am... I believe theories are guides not rulebooks. Theories are just that theories and approaches. They're not definitives. They're our best explanation for human experience based on somewhat scientific research