Intimacy is not the same as closeness. You can share a bed, a mortgage and a calendar with someone and still not fully know them. Intimacy is letting yourself be understood and seen fully. 🤍 xx

You're the best. Thank you G 🤍🥰 xox

Aftercare works outside the bedroom too, after a big conversation or a hard week, a warm drink and someone checking how you're travelling. We're all just looking for a soft place to land. xx

Some people listen to respond and some listen to understand you. The second kind are rare and my favourite!

Being truly seen is so rare that when it finally happens most people are unsure what to do with themselves. I think that the deep want to be witnessed fully is a base need for most people, and it's something I adore being able to offer. 🤍

I've got a little bit of time on Thursday! Get in touch. 💌 connect@evieelysian.com.au

The dog at the cafe looked at my muffin and I almost handed it over. I've got a soft spot for Golden Retrievers. 😂🤍

Most of us were taught that good intimacy should be effortless and natural, which is a bit like expecting to be fluent in a language you never studied.😉 Be curious, ask questions and explore. 🤍

Take a moment to play! Laugh, dance, be silly! Tap back into your curiosity, creativity and play in every facet of your life and I promise you that you will see the ripple on effects. 🤍✨

Make room for silliness in your intimate life, some of the closest moments of my life involved a fit of giggles at the worst possible time. Being funny in bed deserves far more credit than it gets.

There's a really awesome website over here with some really cool information about a very sexy and funny person (me) who has some upcoming dates available to eat delicious meals and eye gaze. 😉🤍 www.evieelysian.link

Being good in bed has a little to do with moves, but mostly to do with whether you can actually be present with the other person and their experience. 🤍

Nerves before int1macy are so common that I'd actually call them part of int1macy! I still get them sometimes after all these years and I've learned to get comfortable sharing these feelings, which in turns helps me feel more settled. 🤍

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I just received Evie 30 from Anonymous via Throne. Thank you! https://throne.com/evieelysian #throne

I just received Evie 30 from Anonymous via Throne. Thank you! https://throne.com/evieelysian #throne

My queerness shows up in how I love, how I connect and who I feel at home with, it's woven through my whole life. 🤍

I'll take emotional intelligence, kindness and comic timing over almost anything else a human can offer 😉🤍

This year, we’re excited to bring back Boardroom After Dark in celebration of International SW’R Pride. Created exclusively for workers, allies and industry peers, this is a night to connect, let your hair down and celebrate together. 🎟️Ticket sales coming soon.

Real connection happens in the unguarded, slightly awkward, deeply human moments. When someone feels safe enough to be entirely themselves. 🤍

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There's an art to slowness that modern life has forgotten..slow down with me xx

Thank you darling G 🤍

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Wild and free ✨

A very busy girly this week! Appreciate everyone who has checked in and made arrangements in advance. xox

I am a deeply soft person with extraordinarily clear standards. xx

It's a huge admin day today (and yesterday, and the day before...). 😅 Treats and coffee are so welcome. 🤍😍 Beem: evie_elysian xox

I've been a busy bee! How have you been? xx