After a week full of running around going to job interviews, it's nice to sit back and just feel sexy for a moment. (Yes, that's Shane and Ilya on my fridge.)

Are our ideas of family shaped by what’s possible or simply by what’s familiar? For author Alex Alberto, polyamory became more than a relationship style—it became a way to redefine their understanding of caregiving and belonging. https://thewalrus.ca/polyamorous-family/

Boundaries are beautiful.They’re what shape and guide our relationships in life and allow them to flourish rather than dwindle. They keep the fire going opposed to suffocating it.

A list of Masc fullservice sex workers in Canada DM to be added! (I just host this list, im not a part of it) go.bsky.app/5vb3Jpq

I had my first client (since my transition) on Sunday and it was such a fun and hot experience! He was a 10/10 client, no notes. It made me regain some faith in humanity and really reinvigorated my love for this job.

Does anyone have any thoughts, opinions, or experiences with Black Orchid Agencies? They used to operate in Victoria a few years ago. I worked at the Nanaimo location and sometimes I’m not sure how to feel about my experience.

I watched The Invite (2026) last night. It was moderately funny, but nothing to write home about. The main couple’s constant arguing actually got on my nerves. What did stand out was the positive and super healthy portrayal of ENM. They even mentioned compersion, which was neat.

How does one create a Throne wishlist, and would one be able to add tickets to Dan and Phil’s Hard Launch show in Vancouver on September 18th to said wishlist? (I’m only partially kidding) (I didn’t become a fan till later in life but now I love those homos)

My lil nap lines on my tummy 🩷

my favorite type of bush 😉

What's a film you've watched that was unlike anything else you'd ever seen? For me, it's Belladonna of Sadness (1973). The psychedelic animation sequences absolutely blew me away. And the depiction of SA didn't feel voyeuristic/gratuitous. (This topic is polarizing, I imagine.)

Someone at my vanilla job mentioned they had open heart surgery a few years ago. I thankfully did not reply, “Oh neat! My favourite poem is called ‘Visceral’ and it juxtaposes open heart surgery and the raw, intimate feeling of loving another person.” I’m really not doing the poem justice.

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Going to see The Odyssey tomorrow with a friend. I watched Epic: The Musical last summer while on shrooms and it was an absolute blast. I wonder if I’ll enjoy this new movie as much. I am stoked to see another trans guy on the big screen.

Hello, lovers, friends, admirers. I have availability on the following dates: - Monday, July 14th - Thursday, July 16th - Sunday, July 19th Available noon-midnight. ❤️

I’ve gotten lots of texts from potential clients, but as soon as I mention screening, they ghost. I’ve only had ads up for about a week, though. Even when I worked as a young female escort, it took a week to get my first client. I think most men didn’t like how un-feminine I was. LOL.

I’ve had a long week, and it’s not over yet… but at least Nerdy Prudes Must Die exists, and I can watch it on YouTube whenever I want.

I just got my new binder from Origami Customs. It took 8 weeks for my custom lycra racerback binder to be made. (They offer free custom sizing.) I am impressed by the comfort and breathability. Downside is that I rocked a uniboob today... but at least now I only have one.

I am finding my footing at my (relatively new) vanilla job and I feel like I kicked ass today! I forgot how satisfying it was to actually feel proud of your work after a long day.

One of my ads is LIVE! I have full availability this weekend, so we'll see if anything fun happens.

Took 270 photos of myself across 3 photoshoots. Selected 10 I actually liked. Edited them and blurred out my face, tattoos, earrings. Made a Bluesky account. Wrote a bio. Made accounts on Tryst, Leolist and a couple others. It's all going to come together very, very soon.

Made a crappy little pizza with one of my favourite hot sauces as the base. It was good, apart from the crust. Next time I'll make one with focaccia instead.

I just saw Leviticus (2026) with a friend. I would give it a 7/10. I appreciate films that bring to light the inherent horror of being queer (while living in a bigoted society). Currently mulling over the phrase, "...we need fear to survive," how it relates to queer people and the film as a whole.

It took me until my late twenties to start enjoying beer. These are two of my favourites. I dislike very hoppy beers and much prefer sours or malty beers. Also, it's a little late, but the cashier at the liquor store wished me a happy Pride Month. :)