Here is your princess

When you watch me play, does it feel bad, darlin’ / When they choose me? / Here is your princess / here is your horizon. Here is your princess...

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Dominance and vulnerability: A case study

After writing my previous post about vulnerability, I thought I’d follow up with an example of how it feels to me.  My boy and I had not been together all that long, I was at his place. It was about 10.30pm. It was winter, a foot or more of snow on the ground outside. I went to the toilet and used the last of the toilet paper on the roll. [...]

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A little drunk

I had Vietnamese pho today for lunch. And wine.  Enviously watching Vietnamese women elegantly eating the soup with chopsticks and a spoon while animatedly arguing about something.  I eat it western-style, like a pasta dish and with a fork. Still it splatters everywhere. And there was wine. Which always makes me want more wine. Now I am settled on the couch with the vague hint of chilli and cinnamon on my breath. [...]

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Beautiful gift shoes

I realised in writing this that I have never had a pair of shoes gifted to me. Not ever. Does that seem strange? So these are the first. They are from a dear man who I have never met, am hugely unlikely to meet, but with whom I have developed a lovely email friendship through this blog. In truth, [...]

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Goodnight kiss

“It’s late,” I said. An obvious ‘end of the evening’ type fact: It was 1am. He nodded agreement, got up from the couch. We wandered over to the door. I smiled, thanked him for the wonderful dinner.  I stood a little taller than him in my heels. We were essentially eye-to-eye, standing a little too close. A slight hesitance, [...]

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Something between us

There is something between us. He felt it early on, some pull towards me, ghosts of our D/s relationship tugging at something in him. You still have a hold over me. How? Why? I hate it. Is there something about submitting to a person that can never be undone? He has never submitted to anyone else, so it makes sense that as he has unravelled past hurts and the idea of submission comes tentatively floating back, [...]

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Conversations with a bot

A submissive man mentioned in a recent Fetlife discussion that he had started talking on IM with a ‘dominant woman’ that he met from one of the groups. He said she seemed interesting until he figured out that she was a bot. In the interests of research, I sought out a bot to have a conversation with. [...]

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What are you interested in?

What interests you with your submissive? I get this question quite a lot. It’s a reasonable one.  The first thing is that I don’t care about ‘what he will do for me’. Can he cook, can he wield a power drill, can he build things, can he give me a pedicure? Don’t care. It’s stupid. Those are useful skills of course, [...]

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Patterns

I just read this post on Ann St Vincent’s blog, and it prompted more thoughts on habitual patterns of behaviour. It’s easy to see patterns from the outside. So very easy. People you know choosing the same kinds of partners (emotionally unavailable, clingy, distant, unreliable, incompatible etc etc), having the exact same interactions, running into the exact same problems over and over and over. When you read a blog where someone shares their life, [...]

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A young Domme’s sexuality

This is my response in a discussion on fetlife.com about whether women come into their dominance later than men, and if so, why that might be. It explains from my personal perspective how I struggled some with getting what I wanted when I was young, so I thought it worth posting here. ___ From my perspective as a young woman out in the world, [...]

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Hold my hand

I am planning the visit to see e. The accommodation is booked, a sweet apartment not far from him. I am looking at flights, and I am freaking out. I am going ahead, but I am freaking out. I send him an email. I do worry that we will not have things to talk about, despite having things to talk about so far, [...]

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I know…

We go to a kinky film festival – short films, an arts centre out in the middle of nowhere. The ticket collector is a big man decked out head-to-toe in a pink frilly little girl’s outfit – from pink sequined shoes to pink ruffled bonnet. He is carrying a giant multi coloured lollipop. I love that. [...]

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e[lust] #69

Welcome to Elust #69 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #70? Start with the rules, come back May 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ [...]

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Administery admin: aka ‘yawnfest’

I know you all just want to hear about my date, but bear with me here: I’m about to change my blog theme (have I ever mentioned how much I hate change? I do, I hate it). About 54% of my readers access my blog from desktops, 32% from mobiles, and 14% from tablets. My current theme is so old that it doesn’t properly support the smaller devices, [...]

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e[lust] #101 #SOSS

Delighted to be in the top three picks in such great company for the last e[lust] of the year :). ____ Welcome to Elust 101– The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. [...]

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Just stop talking now…

In my last post, in amongst the ‘being cute’ thing, bambi suggested I should write about “overcomplicating things like ‘I like touching’ and communications”. It was a good suggestion. I am learning how bambi communicates, and vice versa of course. I have joked that we each need translators. I’m only half kidding. I tend to speak carelessly and broadly. [...]

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When you know “I’m in love”

I’ve only been in love a few times and each time I ‘knew’ it differently. The realisation of love, the clarity of ‘I love you’ arrives for me in different ways. Sometimes a wave of everything that came before just catches up with me, sometimes some piercing emotion that almost lifts me off my feet. I can romanticise those moments, [...]

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Blooming randomness

I had five social events and numerous phone calls in the week around my birthday. FIVE! It is amazing to me that people want to spend time with me (I am a bad friend/daughter/sister etc, for the most part), and I am grateful for their perseverance, as much as I find the socialising exhausting. I could pretend that the over-peopling is the reason I’ve kind of shut down, [...]

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Workout crew – into the new year!

I’m trying something new to kick the Ferns Workout Crew (#fwocrew) into the new year. I took a look at all of our public workout logs over the weekend and noticed a distinct lack of activity for most of us (me included) in the last few (erm… many?!) weeks. Completely understandable of course: I mean, holidays, Christmas, [...]

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I like your face

I like your face.  It is so amazingly expressive, I can’t believe that no-one has ever told you that. How is it that no-one has ever told you that? I like the way you arch your eyebrow, like you are some super villain plotting the world’s demise. I like your pretty eyes, each with slightly different colourings, [...]

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Sweat

It is quiet, there is no violence, no urgency. I am working on him, moving him into position, manipulating limbs, pulling and pushing at him. He starts to sweat, the moisture collecting between his shoulder blades, I continue to gently put pressure on him, he moves very little unless I tell him to, a tiny shift, [...]

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Coming home 1

She sighed as she walked through the front door, throwing her briefcase by the hall table. She smoothed her skirt, shrugged in her jacket, took a deep breath and turned to look into the lounge room. He was sprawled on the couch in jeans and t-shirt, comfortable, had been watching television. He had glanced up when she entered and now he was looking at her, [...]

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e[lust] #92

Welcome to Elust 92– The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #93 Start with the rules, come back April 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ [...]

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Happy femdom story – Wheldrake

I haven’t received a happy femdom story in my inbox for so long. I do love them so. This is a story of remote connection and D/s that was born out of a shared love of words and, unlike many other happy femdom stories I’ve shared it, is one that illustrates that D/s relationships do not have to be about romance to thrive and grow and to make the participants happy. [...]

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See you soon

“…I wonder if you’re gonna wait for me or if you’re gonna find a new boy to spoon, I wish that I could see you soon…” “How long ’til you can see her? And I’m like – the sooner the better Do you really think she will wait for you? And I’m like there’s no way to say and there’s nothing I can do…”  I will wait for you baby, [...]

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Audio porn: Femdom podcast #106 [Audio]

This short, sweet, gentle femdom audio p*rn is nothing like my normal podcast content. I ad-libbed the audio, and then wrote a story about it, a story that mirrors what I was thinking as I recorded it. I suggest you listen to the audio first, before reading the story, and let your imagination take you where it will. [...]

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The first time

I put a blindfold on him and stand close. I lean into his ear, whisper, “You are going to undress me, and kiss me all over, starting at my feet…” He nods, smiles broadly, “Yes Ma’am!” He is nervous, eager, shifting from foot to foot. He reaches out tentatively to make contact with me, starts at the top with my shirt, [...]

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My sent emails XXXI

Hello 22yo_slave_from_nowhere_near_me, If you are really a slave then the least you can do is pay attention to what women say in their profiles and behave accordingly. Does my profile say: “If you are nowhere near me and have no way to actually serve me, please email me with poor spelling and grammar begging to be my slave”? I just checked and it doesn’t. So, [...]

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Dominance and conflict

There is a perception by some out there in the world that dominants enjoy conflict. Maybe some dominants do, but I’m not one of them. One of the reasons I operate better in a D/s relationship is because I *dislike* conflict. I don’t like arguing, I don’t like fighting, and I *really* don’t like wasting time on stupid irrelevancies that shouldn’t even be a ‘thing’. I want a harmonious, [...]

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Domme Chronicles: Book reviews!

I promise I won’t make this blog all about my book from now on, but but… I have to dance in public over wonderful five star reviews. Because happy-making!! *dances* Riveting tales of passion, pain, love, and Dominance  One of the most fascinating collection of stories I have ever had the pleasure of reading. The author has an amazing ability at capturing your attention in the beginning and keeping you on the edge of your seat waiting to read the next tale of passion and romance. [...]

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