Porn can inspire curiosity. But when it comes to fisting (and sex in general), it shouldn't be your only teacher. 👊✨
FFIRE BOY: 👊🏼 Trainer | NYC
@ffireboy.bsky.social
Depth, anatomy & pacing • The FlareForward Method • Bookings only • No casual play/DM advice • Free FF guide ↓ http://ffireboy.com 🔞
If you could erase one FF myth from the community, what would it be? 🤔
August availability is now open. 👊✨ I’m back in NYC and accepting new clients for in-person and virtual coaching. Personalized guidance for individuals and couples, focused on body awareness, communication, and skill development. 📍 NYC 💻 Worldwide Application link in bio.
Curious to know… What's one opinion about fisting that might be unpopular? 🤔👊
August availability is now open. 👊✨ I’m back in NYC and accepting new clients for in-person and virtual coaching. Personalized guidance for individuals and couples, focused on body awareness, communication, and skill development. 📍 NYC 💻 Worldwide Application link in bio.
Most conversations about fisting focus on anatomy, technique, and safety. Those things matter. But the experience is also shaped by psychology. Here are 5 psychological concepts that have changed how I think about teaching fisting. 🧵👊✨
Curious about FF but not sure where to start? 👊✨ I offer both virtual coaching and in-person training (NYC) focused on anatomy, body awareness, communication, and technique. Learn at your own pace. Link in bio.
“Am I clean enough?” It’s one of the most common questions FF bottoms ask themselves. Preparation matters. But sometimes the pursuit of being “clean” becomes something heavier: anxiety, shame, and the pressure to make the body behave perfectly. New blog 👊✨↓
I’ll be at Dore Alley tomorrow. Say hi if you see me! 💙👊✨🌁
Harm reduction is often misunderstood. Some people hear the phrase and assume it means encouraging risky behavior. To me, it’s always meant something else… Read my full reflection through the link below 👇
What if harm reduction isn't about eliminating risk... What if it's about helping people navigate it more thoughtfully? New blog post inspired by a recent study on FF and sexual health. ↓👊✨
Fisters: What's one quality that makes someone a great FF partner? 🤔
FF Beginner Mistake #5: Forgetting that both people shape the fisting experience. It's easy to focus on what you want to happen. Great experiences usually come from paying attention to each other, not just yourself. 👊✨
FF Beginner Mistake #4: Skipping the warm-up. The warm-up isn't just about preparing the body physically. It's also an opportunity to become familiar with how your body feels that day. 👊✨
FF Beginner Mistake #3: Comparing yourself to others. Bodies differ in anatomy, flexibility, experience, and pacing. Your journey doesn't have to look like anyone else's to be meaningful. 👊✨
FF Beginner Mistake #2: Moving faster than your body is ready for. It's easy to assume that progress comes from pushing fforward. More often, progress comes from giving your body enough time to adapt. 👊✨
FF Beginner Mistake #1: Treating every session like a test. Not every session needs to end with a new milestone. Sometimes the goal is simply to learn, explore, and enjoy the experience. 👊✨
If you're new here, welcome. 👊✨ I've gathered all the ways you can work with me and learn from me in one place. Whether you're looking for free guides or more in-depth training, everything I create is built with care. Feel free to explore. ↓
The BEST fisting sessions include some learning, laughter and plenty of lube. 😉👊💦
One of my favorite coaching moments is hearing: "Wait... you're already in? That was so quick! I thought it'd take me a lot longer to open up" 😉👊✨
For years, I thought of myself primarily as a fister. Then later, as a SWer. 👊✨ Recently, I've started thinking of myself differently. As an entrepreneur. I wrote about the behind-the-scenes work that people rarely see: www.flareforwardmethod.com/post/the-ent...
The Entrepreneur Behind the Fister
If you asked me a few years ago how I described myself, I probably would have said I was a fister.It's the skill I spent years developing. It's the thing people know me for. It's the foundation of the...
flareforwardmethod.com
For years, I thought of myself primarily as a fister. Then later, as a SWer. 👊✨ Recently, I've started thinking of myself differently. As an entrepreneur. I wrote about the behind-the-scenes work that people rarely see: www.flareforwardmethod.com/post/the-ent...
The Entrepreneur Behind the Fister
If you asked me a few years ago how I described myself, I probably would have said I was a fister.It's the skill I spent years developing. It's the thing people know me for. It's the foundation of the...
flareforwardmethod.com
I spent the last year writing two publications about depth. One explores the body. The other explores what the body can reveal. Together, they form The Depth Collection. 👊✨
Great session yesterday. Couples session today. Then off to Folsom East. Happy Sunday, FFriends. 💙👊
The practice is only one part of FF. The knowledge around safety, communication, and care was shaped by communities of people sharing what they learned with each other. New blog post for Pride Month. ↓ 🌈👊✨
Little business reflection today 👊 Running a business has a funny way of teaching you the same lessons you’re trying to teach other people. One of the hardest parts of running a very personal, high-touch practice is learning that caring about people and having boundaries can exist at the same time
The longer I teach FF, the less I see it as just a physical pursuit and more as a process of understanding. 👊✨
I've started turning some of my recent newsletter reflections into blog posts. Topics like pleasure, presence, vulnerability, and the emotional side of FF now have a permanent home on the FlareForward website. Feel free to check them out. ↓👊✨