🐊 Gateau πŸ§€

@gateaupardeux.bsky.social

Personal/Suggestive πŸ”ž account for a gator who likes food, spooky stuff, and any moment of time between working too much! Male, He/Him, Gay, 35. β˜€οΈOrlando🌴 ✨🐊✨ Likes/Follows may still be NSFW 🫣

Past 3am laying in bed thinking about how much I love my friends and want to do stupid domestic simple shit with them. Let's go to Costco and stock up on toilet paper and peanut butter. Let's go buy art supplies together. Let's make some sandwiches to eat while folding laundry.

Side note to today: the teenager who scanned my ticket into the fair complimented me on my rainbow shirt and pointed to the progress flag patch on their shorts. I smiled and said, "That's awesome!" That's who I wear queer symbols for: others who need to know there's other people out there like them.

I love it when friends understand!! I feel seen, heard, known, embraced! Let me tie you up and just set you on the floor and have to turn the tv volume up because you're struggling too loudly. Don't let me catch you sneaking a picture of my feet I have propped on the table or I might take them down.

🐊 ChateauGateau ✨ β€” 10:10 PM
I love bondage!!!!!!
But I also really only like it in very particular ways
It's very hard to describe to people that I like situations where one party is being ignored
Very low participation levels because the act is the participation
It stops being candid voyeurism when you require the person whose feet you're ogling resting on a coffee table to start talking to you
and I'm aware that it's cold!!!!!! I know!!!!!!
I'm aware that it's impersonal!! that's the point!
I do like personal stuff too but I also find I can really only get in that headspace at furry cons in deeper specific situations
mostly I just want to go get dinner

🐍flamebringer🐍 β€” 10:18 PM
i get it tbh i feel like i have a very voyeuristic interest in it
i like to see guys who are tied up but i dont want to actually like. do anything to them lol
this is basically the same reason that im into statues. i like it when bodies are on display and you can observe them and they can't do anything about it

Cet🌌 β€” 10:28 PM
>tie someone up
>walk out of the room and forget they are there while you have a bowl of cereal

Motivation and morale excruciatingly low for a day I planned on doing all kinds of stuff: writing, working on art, cleaning, actually eating something today, coordinating future plans. At least I showered..! I promise that after this little whiny post I'll dive into doing ONE of these things πŸŠπŸ’¦

In my underwear painting, eating cheese, and teasing friends while making plans to realize future dreams. Surrounded by things I love, art from passionate freaks, mementos of times full of freedom with friends, reminders that what I like is right and true. How can my mood ever be down?

Gotta find more effective ways to communicate that my asexuality and particular taste in kinks and aversion to most physicality doesn't go away if you use puppy dog eyes and say please and hold an imagined obligation over me. It's hard enough as it is feeling like I'm deficient in some way.