Dominance isn't about what you can take from her. But what you're worthy of being given 🖤
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40 British - Dominant Dominance isn't a performance, it's a promise.
It’s about finding the right person to trust with the parts of you that matter 🖤
Funny how words can feel so permanent until the person who said them isn't there anymore. 🖤
You can understand what happened, accept that you can't change it, and still have days where it catches you off guard. Moving forward doesn't mean it stops hurting. 🖤
A submissive doesn't need a Dominant who simply knows how to take control. She needs one who knows what to do with it 🖤
Standing up, taking a breath, and remembering you're still you 🖤
I dont call myself Dominant for the sake of it. I want my strength to mean something 🖤
Not done one of these for a while If you feel inclined ask away 🖤 ngl.link/gentlemandom...
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I don't need to make her feel powerless, to make myself feel powerful 🖤
Don't confuse gentle with lenient. They've never been the same thing. 🖤
I'm not interested in being the Dom who is strict because he enjoys making things difficult. I'm strict because I expect something from myself too. If I ask her for discipline, I'd better have some of my own. 🖤
Don't get complacent because you've won her. Keep flirting with her. Keep making her feel wanted. Keep surprising her. Keep giving her reasons to look at you and think, yeah..that's my man. Getting her attention was the easy part. Never stop chasing her heart 🖤
Being a little doesn't make her incapable. She can be strong. Independent. Stubborn. She can have her own opinions and know exactly what she wants. Then she can come home and let herself be my little. Those things don't contradict each other 🖤
There's a difference between someone wanting your attention and someone being genuinely interested in you. One wants your time. The other wants to know your thoughts, your stupid stories, your little habits, what made you smile today. That's connection. 🖤
There's a big difference between a submissive who obeys because she's scared of upsetting you,. From one who obeys because she genuinely wants to give that part of herself to you. 🖤
Giving your submission, it will make you feel scared. Terrified even. Trusting someone so completely goes against everything you've learned to protect yourself. But..it also will make you feel more alive than you've ever felt in your entire life 🖤
Feeling like I need some company 🖤 ngl.link/gentlemandom...
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Taking accountability. Not hiding behind “that’s just how I am.” Owning it. Fixing it. Doing better. 🖤
A Dominant who holds themselves to a higher standard should always endeavour: To communicate clearly, avoid manipulation, respect boundaries & take accountability when they make mistakes. 🖤
