Ry // Handle[d] with Care (they/he)
@handledandhandling.bsky.social
fka @/basicmomdad shy artist exploring disability, grief, and end of life justice 🖇️ and very much so anti-imperial core! 🖕🏽 held by the great lakes and the land of the council of three fires 🍃
okay not to come on here and dump all at once but it’s also wild how overwhelmed i feel because i feel like im doing absolutely nothing……i had such an amazing day on sunday and felt like nothing could stop me…..just for a bad Monday to send me spiraling again
lol it is so painful to have had 3 parents and the only surviving parent clearly hates you and then you remember the dead ones hated you too 🤪 (crooked face with tongue out and googly eyes) i am very fucked up 🙂👍🏽 (smile and light brown thumbs up)
i wish i was as mean as all the mean ass mfs in my life swear i am
feeling most out of place and isolated when around family yay 👍🏽
goddddddd i love “we are lady parts” sooooo so much
sorry i haven’t been active i’ve been being gay
i just have to say….wicks are so sexy yes but also just so fuckin magical. niggas in stem type shit fr!
California Governor Gavin Newsom has declared a State of Emergency due to concerns over bird flu infections across the US.
so thank you (/sar) to everyone who has contributed to this pandemic being as severe and drawn out as it is because now i am avoiding treatment because the risk is too high right now 🫠👍🏽
why does my body always make it clear that i need another course of immunosuppressants at the worst time possible?
a quick #nsfw ask i know this is quite the reach but where are Black maskers/covid realists making kinky connections? please don’t say feeld lol
i feel like every time i tell someone how well my recovery is going, something new starts hurting
feeling a lot of grief and frustration today but i just found out one of my childhood friends from church is gay so that’s a positive 👍🏽
not to be corny or a jinx, but I’m genuinely so excited for the new year. after suuuuuch a shitty and traumatic year or 2….or 5, I’m heading into the year where my Saturn’s return will begin feeling grounded, equipped, and hopeful. i got nerves too, but when don’t I?
been going through the rollercoasters of recovery alongside an evil, negligent landlord who had us in a cold ass Chicago basement with no heat last weekend this led to me having a really shitty flare up with my healing muscles and tissue at the site of my surgery 😵💫 so I been reeeeeal off game
wait i know i be late but why i’m getting read receipts from the android girlies now in iMessage?????? chile i don’t know what RCS means
okay so it’s looking like i may not be able to submit my ssdi app by the end of the year like i hoped :/ but im also feeling really calm about it in a way that’s……out of character a bit 💀
ok maybe this will get my algorithm to find who i want 🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️ LESBIANS BLACK LESBIANS BLACK NONBINARY LESBIANS LEABIANS ON T LESBIANS!!!! 🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️
As H5N1 gathers steam, look to your COVID-conscious friends. We're tired and burned out but we want the best for all of us.
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$0.19/pound turkey, got this one for $3 (with $50+ purchase)from Lucky, for anyone with a Lucky close by! Only today and tomorrow! Yeah yeah, I do Mom posts like this. What?!😆
i stopped posting pics on twitter years ago but i think i’m comfy sharing on here 🥲 until i do a proper intro, I’m Ry! I care a lot about the politics of care, death, art, + disability! #StillCoviding i’d love if you could share + support my recovery crowdfund 🫶🏽 #BIPOCMA FundRazr.com/RysRoad2Rec
My latest anthology is Disability Intimacy: Essays on Love, Care, and Desire You can find out more about my book plus a free plain language version and discussion guide on my website disabilityvisibilityproject.com/book/disabil...
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