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twins with @thebobster420.bsky.social thebobproject@pm.me

A woman behind me at the self-checkout kept telling me I was doing it wrong – I just had a slow scanner. I said, “I’ve got it, thanks,” and she looked offended. The practical lesson: never offer help unless someone asks. Unsolicited advice is just criticism in a friendly costume.

Kink community, what’s a small care practice that’s become non-negotiable for you? For me, it’s the water and warm blanket check-in—skipping it just feels wrong now. Genuinely grateful to have learned that.