Kelly Stonelake (she/her)

@kellystonelake.bsky.social

Former Meta executive turned whistleblower and advocate for kids' online safety, common sense tech regulations, suicide prevention, healthcare equity, and safer workplaces for those on the margins. AuDHD, MCAS, POTS, EDS overturned.substack.com

"Safety by design instead of age restrictions: It is not platform access but the platforms themselves that need to be restricted, argues @kellystonelake.bsky.social—a former Meta executive turned whistleblower and online safety activist"

eurotopics Presseschau@eurotopicsde.bsky.social · 2w ago

Sicherheit durch Design statt Altersbeschränkung: Nicht der Plattformzugang, sondern die Plattformen selbst müssen beschränkt werden, meint @kellystonelake.bsky.social @sydsvenskan.se, früher Führungskraft bei Meta, heute Whitleblowerin und Aktivistin für Online-Sicherheit ▶️ eurotopics.net/de/361305

"Josh Felker, 44, an engineering manager who’s now on leave from the Facebook parent company, admitted he had been grooming and sexting someone he thought was a teen girl during a sting by Predator Poachers Long Island, a vigilante group that seeks to catch would-be pervs."

Exclusive | Meta worker who developed ‘digital experiences for kids’ admits to trying to sext child in undercover NYC sting

He admitted he had been grooming and sexting someone he thought was a 13-year-old girl during a sting by vigilante group Predator Poachers Long Island.

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The latest on Sarah Wynn-Williams, Instagram’s CSAM ads, and why Meta has spent $70,000 per day lobbying the federal government since the beginning of 2026. Here is a roundup of the latest ways Mark Zuckerberg is trying to make the problems he refuses to solve everyone else’s:

July 2026: The Latest in Tech Authoritarianism

The US' new "child-safety bill" that would protect Big Tech, Meta's escalating war on Sarah Wynn-Williams, AI-assisted layoffs, CSAM ads in India, and my op-ed about why Europe’s next moves matter

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JUST IN: Brand new research on adolescent screen time finds a correlation between screen hours and sleep deficiency. Data collection, analysis and chart via my middle schooler. n= 50

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I cited DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender) in yesterday’s analysis of Meta’s tactics to silence and shift blame to truth tellers like Sarah Wynn-Williams. Today, Dr. Jennifer Freyd who originally coined the term shared my piece! Yes, DARVO 👏🏼 use 👏🏼 by 👏🏼 Meta! 👏🏼

Jennifer Joy Freyd@jjfreyd.bsky.social · 2mo ago

DARVO by Meta? "Confronted with an accusation, the powerful party denies the conduct, attacks the credibility of the person describing it, and recasts itself as the true victim. Freyd observed that genuine offenders often respond to exposure by threatening lawsuits . ." @kellystonelake.bsky.social

In the 16th century, women who threatened power were punished with the branks, an iron cage locked over the head with a flat bit that pressed down the tongue. Last week, Sarah Wynn-Williams sat silent for an hour on stage. Modern branks are made of paper: NDAs, forced arbitration, and lawsuits.

The Modern Muzzle: Meta's Paper Branks

A company that sold the world on giving everyone a voice made Sarah Wynn-Williams sit silent on a stage

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Executives must be incentivized to prevent child-safety failures, not just manage Meta’s exposure to them. Executives must be measured against whether child-safety systems actually work, not whether Meta can manage the optics.

What I Told Mark Zuckerberg This Morning: Child Safety Must Be Tied to Executive Pay

At Meta’s annual meeting, I urged executives and shareholders to support a proposal asking whether child-safety performance should be tied to senior executive pay.

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I'm honored to present the proposal, which asks for a report assessing the feasibility of integrating child safety improvements into Meta's senior executive compensation program, tomorrow at Meta's Annual General Shareholder Meeting.

Proxy Impact: Shareholders Move to Link Meta Executive Pay to Child Safety as Landmark Lawsuit Losses Mount

/PRNewswire/ -- On Wednesday May 27, Meta shareholders will vote on a shareholder resolution asking the Board to assess the feasibility of tying senior...

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@timnitgebru.blacksky.app: If you’re building a bridge, you think about what vehicles will cross it, what loads it needs to bear, and you choose your materials accordingly. “The current approach to #AI is building a bridge out of pig iron and never asking who’s going to drive over it,” Bergman said.

"They Prey on Gazelles, But Only the Weakest Ones"

A room of lawyers, legislators, and litigators mapping the fight to protect kids from predatory tech

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I have to renew my license before my birthday and they’re finally saying I’m ineligible for online renewal. INJUSTICE. I took this pic 13 years ago before I had kids IT LOOKS EXACTLY LIKE ME TODAY. How DARE they! I’m just as vibrant, happy, and free!! I SWEAR!!!!!!!!!

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Today, I wrote about #autisticburnout and my variable capacity, #wellnessculture, and the radical act of self-compassion. Perhaps you’re also navigating this burnout, or maybe because you’ve reckoned with your limits some other way, due to chronic illness, disability, caregiving, job-loss, or grief.

Peanut Butter on Crackers Can Be a Complete Meal

On capacity limitations, wellness culture, and the radical act of self-compassion

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46 minutes after attacking Pope Leo, the president has posted an AI image of himself healing someone in the style of Jesus Christ. (The heavens, meanwhile, feature a war plane, bald eagles and a somewhat demonic-looking figure)

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There is some MAGA opposition to Trump's "whole civilization will die" plans: • Alex Jones: "🚨🚨WAR CRIME ALERT!!🚨🚨" • Marjorie Taylor Greene: "This is evil and madness" • Joe Kent: "reckless rage and destruction" • Candace Owens: "The 25th amendment needs to be invoked."

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