this post is so wildly good and I absolutely can't recommend it enough "You don’t have to reduce love to trivial smalltalk. If you want, set that boundary and watch what happens in your life. The people who don’t love you will be put off, and the people most willing to love you will be attracted."
Toxic Positivity: When Nice Isn't Kind Read it for free here: www.patreon.com/jonathanvair...