K On The Beach

@konthebeach.bsky.social

Mom, artist, celiac GF chef, very loud 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 ally, massive geek…all served with snark. Also? Expect too much corgi content and cursing. Not usually related to the corgi.

Nothing like some 2ish am thunderstorms, a scared corgi, and a power outage to keep one awake. But storm is over, just drizzle now, dog is back in her happy place aka under comically tall bed, and power is back on. Am just awake still bc middle age is stupid.

thinking about Patrick Stewart and Tim Curry and Dolly Parton and Catherine O’Hara and how many of the tributes shared after they died translate to something like “their art made me feel like I wasn’t alone in the world” it is hard to think of a better way to spend a life than that

We’re having an unusual for here thunderstorm and thought I wouldn’t have to be a human thundercoat for Miss Moo but here I sit, with her bony elbows and all, cuddling my girl who is deeply unamused.

Corgi on her person’s lapConcerned corgi on my lap

And to be clear, already raised my kids, I obviously made it work without child support. The part that brings me joy is knowing that interest is continuing to accrue on his arrears balance. After the last court hearing, am also certain he doesn’t realize this.

Child support has restarted to trickle in, and when I say trickle, I mean it. He was supposed to be a paltry amount anyways, so since he was so far behind in arrears, that’s what he’s supposed to continue to pay while paying off the arrears. Well. Now, he’s back to paying just a small fraction.

Teen has inventory tonight at work, prep for the holidays and all; the fun of a mall retail job ha, but Millie is displeased with this. She’s been at the front windows watching the driveway since they left.

Very pathetic corgi staring out dark windows under a telescope

For my birthday, several months ago, my dad decided I needed a generator. So he bought one. And now he’s annoyed because it wouldn’t be here for today…but more than that, won’t be delivered until March. Probably April. I love my dad. But island time is a THING 🤣

And appropriately, the squid I bought is from Monterey. I’m a little excited about that. Random fun fact: elementary kids in Monterey still dissect squid in science class and write with the squid ink using the squid’s gladius/pen (aka cartilage spine thing). It’s a long ass tradition 🦑

Buying myself two new books for my bday was a good choice. Spent all day reading and since I’m going to be held hostage waiting for the fridge all day (delivery window is 7am-6pm 🫠), will do the same tomorrow. And will make myself some gf fried calamari and a cake, dammit.

My birthday is Monday and hot damn it’s fucking with my head to the extreme. Am turning the same age as my brother who died at this exact age. I cannot outlive that asshole. I mean, I truly hope I do, but also. Fuck.

Whoops. Drank too much whilst talking to the BFF because holy shit dating in your 40s is a THING. Anyways. Bird show later and many things to do and bday cakes to plan and yeah. Nap sounds great z🤣🫣

This is not a gecko. I definitely ate this, not the gecko. Poke night, made two kinds, and there is sushi rice under the roe but what can I say, I love the pops of the roe so kind of go hard on it.

White bowl with ahi, bright orange roe, and salmon in it with edamame and green onions