Why should you encourage people to cancel on you? Because if a "no" isn't safe, a "yes" doesn't mean much. Wrote about why I actively encourage the people I love to cancel on me, no guilt required, and what it's taught me about trust. 🤗 www.labelsarehard.com/p/encouragin... #communication

Why you should encourage people to cancel on you

How making cancellations safe builds trust in relationships

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What I actually commit to, when I'm not promising forever? This post is my attempt to answer that question, and get into what commitment means to me within Relationship Anarchy. Curious to hear what it means to you! 💜 www.labelsarehard.com/p/commitment... #RelationshipAnarchy #polyamory #ENM

What am I committing to in relationship anarchy?

What I actually commit to, when I'm not promising forever

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Gremlin thoughts: the hard feelings that show up in response to someone's actions, even when nobody's done anything wrong. Wrote up what they are and how to share / receive them. Let me know if it resonates! 🤗 www.labelsarehard.com/p/gremlin-th... #relationshipAnarchy #polyamory #gremlinThoughts

Gremlin thoughts

When you feel bad and nobody did anything wrong

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I’d been planning since 2018 to “some day” start a blog about my approach to relationships. I kick myself a little bit that it took me this long, but mostly I’m just thrilled that I have finally done it! 🧵 (1/4)

For me, love without entitlement means dropping the relationship escalator, removing prescriptive hierarchy, & making every connection an intentional and unique choice. Here's a deep dive on my #RelationshipAnarchy framework: www.labelsarehard.com/p/relationsh... #NonMonogamy #ENM #Relationships

Love without entitlement

My approach to relationship anarchy

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