Lils 🏳️‍⚧️

@lillabit.com

she/her • angry northern transsexual who likes queer fiction and cinema

Today is not a difficult day for “members of the trans+ community” (just say trans people?) because… NOTHING. HAS. CHANGED. The guidance is not for us, it is for service providers. Do not change any behaviour until told otherwise, and even then - assess whether it’s worth doing anyway.

Switchboard - LGBTQIA+ Support Line@switchboard.bsky.social · 12h ago

We understand that today will be difficult for members of the Trans+ community and their loved ones as a result of the EHRC Code of Practice becoming law. Our service is free, confidential, and available to all. From 10am to 10pm, you are welcome to contact us on phone, chat, or email.

I don’t care if you like its cultural output. The BBC has been a major player in the immiseration of this country, in the persecution of trans people, immigrants, muslims, travellers and disabled people, in the spread of dangerous rhetoric about climate change and vaccines. It must be dismantled.

drives me mad that whenever “trans women should be strip searched by men” news crops up, there’s always a trans guy in the comments saying he’d prefer to be searched by a woman anyway

An evening with my token cis friends has revealed that they’re far more likely to oppose transphobic policy when it comes from a lame duck, universally hated PM than when the same policy comes from a charismatic Northerner. Fucking bleak, man.

If you can, you should opt out of having a Summary Care Record to make sure that your “data” isn’t readily available to every NHS service you use. Make them have to work to segregate you. (I recognise, of course, that this is a privilege unavailable to people with complex medical needs.)

GeekOnALeash 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️[✊🏳️‍⚧️ I WILL NOT COMPLY]@geekonaleash.co.uk · last wk.

"Sex at birth (observed)" is now a mandatory data item in the NHS core information standard (v2.0.1). It also appears (if I am reading this correctly) that gender identity and pronouns have been removed. The NHS are transphobic as fuck!!! standards.nhs.uk/published-st...

"Summary - Information model changes in this release
| Location | Data item | Update | Detail | | :--- | :--- | :--- | :--- | | Person demographics |

Gender
Sex
| Removal of data item(s) | Data items removed following consultation. | | Person demographics |
Sex at birth (observed)
Administrative gender
Gender identity
Additional information about gender identity
Pronouns
| Addition of data item(s) |
Sex at birth (observed) is a mandatory data item.
Administrative gender is a required, read-only legacy data item for England only to represent the data held on the Personal Demographics Service (PDS).
All other new data items are required in the core information standard.
Back to the"

Me and a friend ran into an old school pal of her’s that didn’t know she had transitioned. After caveating that he didn’t know the right language to talk about trans stuff, and being reassured that it was okay not to be perfect, he asked her (and I quote) “when did you troon out?”

I love and respect trans people! I just think they’re a danger to women, cheats, sexually deviant, and disturbingly mentally ill. I still love and respect them though! We shouldn’t kill them!

A lot of focus on Phillipson’s reappointment, but this is the worst minister appointment. Smyth is one of the most vicious TERFs in parliament, publicly called for Theresa May to apologise for being pro-trans, and was part of all of the recent attacks on trans healthcare.

Karin Smyth: Very pleased to have been reappointed as
Minister of State in the Department of Health and Social Care.
I look forward to continuing the work of rebuilding our NHS to make it fit for the future.

FWIW while I don’t like the signal it sends in keeping her, I don’t think Phillipson was ever a driving force of transphobia in the way that Streeting was in Health. She’s just weak.

Cis people don’t understand what it is to be trans. Something that I’ve really come to the conclusion of, is it’s such a complex and still marginal experience in society, even the most well meaning progressive cis person can’t really grasp it.

I wasn’t alive in the 80s, but I have to assume a difference between queerphobia then versus now is that companies didn’t hang up Pride flags while simultaneously implementing segregationist policies. We’re in the era of gaslighting.

Rayner to Health is the rumour that I’m clinging to. She’s shown that she’s willing to be quiet on trans issues to avoid embarrassing the media, but is she willing to be the one going on TV defending HRT bans? Maybe, but I’m at least a little doubtful.

hey guys brand new trans person here I have a suggestion why don't we try and work on our optics / reason with the TERFs / find some way of compromising. can't believe you guys haven't already thought of trying that and I'm the first but hey I always was a smart cookie

Important🧵from Cal at the coal face. “the school staff cried” doesn’t move me any more, it angers me, as they proceed to act on govt policy and cause harm. Streeting told me, meeting the trans youth whose medication he’d removed was “really upsetting for me, really hard”. We need more than tears.

Cal Horton (they/them)@fiercemum.bsky.social · 3w ago

Just had meeting with kiddo's school. She has been fully supported, treated with full equality & dignity for years. All of that changes from September. Full segregation & humiliation across the board. The school staff cried in the meeting. This will absolutely lead to children's deaths 1/2