Michele
@michelesaysno.bsky.social
*Adults Only* Fetish Blogger with @jonmustwait & @ownedsubjohn throne.com/michelesaysno #flr #chastity #bdsm #femdom #cuckold monkeyinacage.com chastityandbdsm.com
"once I got D’s cock in my mouth, I had this urge wash over me to give him the best fucking blowjob I was capable of giving" #bisexual #bicurious #blowjob #gaysex #gay #groupsex monkeyinacage.com/our-first-fo...
Chastity & BDSM Lifestyle Blog Our First Foursome with D: What Actually Happened
Our first “foursome” with D didn’t go as planned. Here’s the real story of nerves, ice-breaking, my first proper M/M experience, and what happened after I came.
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This guide is written especially for women stepping into dominance and keyholding. It’s about finding your voice, confidence, and your style of control. #control #femdom #keyholder #domme #dominant #beginnersguide
Chastity & BDSM Lifestyle Blog Beginner’s Guide for Women: Becoming a Dominant Keyholder and Taking Control in Your Own Way
Discover how to become a confident dominant woman and keyholder. Real advice on taking control, setting rules, chastity, contracts, and making the dynamic work for you and your partner. No one-size…
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Beginner’s Guide for Women: Becoming a Dominant Keyholder #domme #dominant #keyholder #guide #beginnersguide #femdom monkeyinacage.com/beginners-gu...
Chastity & BDSM Lifestyle Blog Beginner’s Guide for Women: Becoming a Dominant Keyholder and Taking Control in Your Own Way
Discover how to become a confident dominant woman and keyholder. Real advice on taking control, setting rules, chastity, contracts, and making the dynamic work for you and your partner. No one-size…
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Sometimes the sexiest thing is knowing when to call in the professional who fits just right. #dildo #ranger #colt #vixskin #vixencreations monkeyinacage.com/the-stunt-do...
Chastity & BDSM Lifestyle Blog The Stunt Double
Sometimes the sexiest thing is knowing when to call in the professional who fits just right.
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Let me tell you about the most expensive “I told you so” purchase I’ve ever made. #tease #edging #denial #femdom #edgeomatic monkeyinacage.com/i-bought-the...
Chastity & BDSM Lifestyle Blog I Bought the Edge-O-Matic 3000 to Prove My Husband Wrong…
I figured it was just another overpriced gadget that would collect dust after a week. But Jon kept bringing it up… so one day I decided to secretly buy the damn thing for his birthday. My evil plan…
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This machine does pretty much what the name implies – it automatically edges you. #tease #edging #denial #edgeomatic #autoedging @maustec.io x.com/i/status/207...
What repair looks like in healthy D/s vs. what crosses the line? What’s your go-to way to reconnect after an argument in your dynamic? Share below 👇 monkeyinacage.com/how-conflict...
Chastity & BDSM Lifestyle Blog Same Fight, Different Rules: How Conflict in D/s Compares to Vanilla Relationships
How does conflict in D/s relationships compare to vanilla ones? A clear side-by-side look at what stays the same and what changes when power exchange is involved.
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Every Relationship has conflict. We all know the language. monkeyinacage.com/the-universa...
Chastity & BDSM Lifestyle Blog The Universal Language of Conflict: How Arguments Happen in Every Relationship
Conflict happens in every relationship. Learn why arguments start, common triggers, and how to recognize healthy vs unhealthy patterns in this introductory guide to relationship conflict.
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Conflict = clash of two real humans with different needs. Common triggers: money, chores, intimacy, feeling unheard. In D/s it gets layered with power, protocols & headspace. #ClashAndConsent #BDSM #FLR #PowerExchange #KinkCommunity #RelationshipAdvice monkeyinacage.com/the-universa...
Chastity & BDSM Lifestyle Blog The Universal Language of Conflict: How Arguments Happen in Every Relationship
Conflict happens in every relationship. Learn why arguments start, common triggers, and how to recognize healthy vs unhealthy patterns in this introductory guide to relationship conflict.
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Coffee talk: Am I Kinky? This is just our normal. No scenes, no role-play, no on/off switch. It’s 24/7. Everyday talk about dinner or work flows straight into “I can’t wait to make you lick my asshole.” The filthy and the ordinary blend so naturally it barely feels dirty anymore.
Coffee talk: Am I Kinky?
This is just our normal. No scenes, no role-play, no on/off switch. It’s 24/7. Everyday talk about dinner or work flows straight into “I can’t wait to make you lick my asshole.” The filthy and the ordinary blend so naturally it barely feels dirty anymore.
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Curious who makes the first move in a #threesome? We share our real experience - planned vs spontaneous, how it starts, and exactly what happens from couch to bedroom. #MMFThreesome #KinkyThrouple #Poly #sharedwife #throuple #sex #facesitting monkeyinacage.com/who-makes-th...
Chastity & BDSM Lifestyle Blog Who Makes the First Move in a Threesome? Our Real Experience
Who makes the first move when things turn steamy in a threesome? We reveal the truth from our real experiences, whether it’s spontaneous heat-of-the-moment passion or a planned seduction, who usual…
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Who Makes the First Move in a Threesome? Our Real Experience Who makes the first move when things turn steamy in a threesome? We reveal the truth from our real experiences, whether it’s spontaneous heat-of-the-moment passion or a planned seduction, who usually initiates, and exactly how we go from…
Who Makes the First Move in a Threesome? Our Real Experience
Who makes the first move when things turn steamy in a threesome? We reveal the truth from our real experiences, whether it’s spontaneous heat-of-the-moment passion or a planned seduction, who usually initiates, and exactly how we go from hanging out to all three of us tangled together in bed.
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Saturday Night at Munch: Good Conversation, New Faces, and Honest Expectations Last Saturday the three of us headed back to our local monthly kink get-together at the bar, and it was exactly what we needed... low-key, relaxed, and genuinely enjoyable. We hung out for hours, had a couple of drinks,…
Saturday Night at Munch: Good Conversation, New Faces, and Honest Expectations
Last Saturday the three of us headed back to our local monthly kink get-together at the bar, and it was exactly what we needed... low-key, relaxed, and genuinely enjoyable. We hung out for hours, had a couple of drinks, had some really good conversations, and once again closed the place down. There’s something comforting about being in a space where everyone understands the lifestyle.
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Most people think great kink relationships happen when two people have identical fetishes, perfect checklists, and zero compromises. Spoiler alert: that’s fantasy. Real-life kink is messier, hotter, and way more interesting. monkeyinacage.com/when-your-ki...
Chastity & BDSM Lifestyle Blog When Your Kinks Don’t Match: The Smart Way to Compromise in Kinky Relationships
Most people think great kink happens with perfect matching fetishes. Spoiler: that’s fantasy. Real kink is about getting creative when your desires don’t line up and discovering it can actually mak…
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The Sharp Bite of Spiked Nipple Clamps: Sinking Deep into Sub Space Already floating in sub space after an intense weekend, Michele introduced me to a new level of nipple torture with spiked clover clamps. The pain was exquisite, the endorphins intoxicating, and the connection between us electric.…
The Sharp Bite of Spiked Nipple Clamps: Sinking Deep into Sub Space
Already floating in sub space after an intense weekend, Michele introduced me to a new level of nipple torture with spiked clover clamps. The pain was exquisite, the endorphins intoxicating, and the connection between us electric. Here is how these nasty little toys took me even deeper.
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Coffee talk: STI testing? How did I get here?
Coffee talk: STI testing? How did I get here?
Life has taken some unusual twists in the last few years. As I sit here with my coffee today, I’m reflecting on a recent trip to the doctor that represents what I hoped for when we re-entered the local social scene. It’s a story about health, honesty, and the beautiful complexity of new relationships.
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My Wife’s Boyfriend Has a Sexy Ass (or: How I Learned to Embrace My Bi-Curiousness) As I allowed myself to be more comfortable with this concept, I started realizing that other things about guys turned me on, too: I began to "appreciate" nice looking cocks. And I was okay with it... even when I…
My Wife’s Boyfriend Has a Sexy Ass (or: How I Learned to Embrace My Bi-Curiousness)
As I allowed myself to be more comfortable with this concept, I started realizing that other things about guys turned me on, too: I began to "appreciate" nice looking cocks. And I was okay with it... even when I started feeling the urge to do more than just look. But it was all just fantasy talk.
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When Your Kinks Don’t Match: The Smart Way to Compromise in Kinky Relationships Most people think great kink happens with perfect matching fetishes. Spoiler: that’s fantasy. Real kink is about getting creative when your desires don’t line up and discovering it can actually make things way hotter.
When Your Kinks Don’t Match: The Smart Way to Compromise in Kinky Relationships
Most people think great kink happens with perfect matching fetishes. Spoiler: that’s fantasy. Real kink is about getting creative when your desires don’t line up and discovering it can actually make things way hotter.
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Coffee Talk: Up early for a flight
Being Owned: Reflections on Our Long-Distance Power Exchange
Last Friday I had to remove my njoy Pure Plug 2.0 before catching a flight to see Michele. Reflecting on a week of being plugged, deep sub space, and the joy of finally reconnecting in person.
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Why I Get Soaked Just Thinking About Teasing and Denying My Husband’s Orgasms (And Why Men Never Understand How Much We Crave It) Why I get ridiculously turned on by teasing and denying my husband’s orgasms - the real reasons this woman craves control, how it deepens our intimacy, and why he will…
Why I Get Soaked Just Thinking About Teasing and Denying My Husband’s Orgasms (And Why Men Never Understand How Much We Crave It)
Why I get ridiculously turned on by teasing and denying my husband’s orgasms - the real reasons this woman craves control, how it deepens our intimacy, and why he will never fully understand how wet it makes me.
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Coffee Talk: Do I still have cuckold fantasies? I used to have strong cuckold fantasies. Now that I’m actually living them with Michele, those fantasies have shifted. Instead of dreaming, I get to remember… and sometimes push through moments I didn’t expect. One night in particular taught me how…
Coffee Talk: Do I still have cuckold fantasies?
I used to have strong cuckold fantasies. Now that I’m actually living them with Michele, those fantasies have shifted. Instead of dreaming, I get to remember… and sometimes push through moments I didn’t expect. One night in particular taught me how real her control is — even when I didn’t want to obey.
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POV: You’re caged, plugged, & your Domme texts you commands from across the country… Face down. Ass up. Big plug + extra minty toothpaste. Who else gets off on this level of control? Read it here monkeyinacage.com/i-turned-my-... #realflr #bdsm #femdom #chastity #flr #malechastity #anal #slut
My birthday is tomorrow You've got less than a day left... Are you really going to let a woman who's turning 50yo think you don't care about her? After all she does for you? You suck #birthdaygirl #50yearsold #findom #throne #surpriseme throne.com/michelesaysno
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I Turned My Boyfriend Into My Personal Anal Slut: Face-Down, Ass-Up Live on Cam I told him to get the heavy stainless steel one that we affectionately call "Big Boy" and pretty much makes him whimper every single time. I gave him his instructions: get on all fours on the floor beside the bed, face…
I Turned My Boyfriend Into My Personal Anal Slut: Face-Down, Ass-Up Live on Cam
I told him to get the heavy stainless steel one that we affectionately call "Big Boy" and pretty much makes him whimper every single time. I gave him his instructions: get on all fours on the floor beside the bed, face down, ass up, camera.
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Is It Still Chastity If There’s No Cage? Wondering if chastity without a cage is ‘real’ chastity? Exploring orgasm denial, mental control, and whether hardware is required.
Is It Still Chastity If There’s No Cage?
Wondering if chastity without a cage is ‘real’ chastity? Exploring orgasm denial, mental control, and whether hardware is required.
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Coffee Talk: Embracing that I Have a Small Penis Last night Michele looked at me and simply said, 'You have a small penis.' No context, no warmup, just the truth. This morning over coffee I realized it doesn’t degrade me… it actually frees me.
Coffee Talk: Embracing that I Have a Small Penis
Last night Michele looked at me and simply said, 'You have a small penis.' No context, no warmup, just the truth. This morning over coffee I realized it doesn’t degrade me… it actually frees me.
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Our First BDSM Event at a Sex Club PT 4: Sexy People Fucking in Public and I Managed to Cockblock Myself For those of you looking to hear about my hot sexy experiences at the club… this is going to be a little bit of a different post than you’ll most likely be expecting. My time at the sex club…
Our First BDSM Event at a Sex Club PT 4: Sexy People Fucking in Public and I Managed to Cockblock Myself
For those of you looking to hear about my hot sexy experiences at the club… this is going to be a little bit of a different post than you’ll most likely be expecting. My time at the sex club was fairly tame for most of the night… except for one part.
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Our First BDSM Event at a Sex Club PT 3: Bruised and Exposed on the Bench I know we've written about what it was like in the club in previous posts but it's worth taking you through some of it again. You read something similar in John's post about his first impression. The moment we walked through…
Our First BDSM Event at a Sex Club PT 3: Bruised and Exposed on the Bench
I know we've written about what it was like in the club in previous posts but it's worth taking you through some of it again. You read something similar in John's post about his first impression. The moment we walked through the doors of the club, you could almost feel the energy. Right to our left, on one of the St.
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Coffee Talk: Do You Like Surprise Gifts? Contemplating whether or not having your girlfriend show up with a cum filled pussy is better than her keeping her husband denied.
Coffee Talk: Do You Like Surprise Gifts?
Contemplating whether or not having your girlfriend show up with a cum filled pussy is better than her keeping her husband denied.
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