MissHalcyon
@misshalcyon.bsky.social
Autistic student, writer, mycology nerd, etc! My account is 50% my special interests and 50% Autistic advocacy. Writer for theautisticadult.org Missy | 29 | she/her
As a kid, the mountains that made up the valley of my home looked like this in the deepest winters. It only snowed once every 4 years or so in the valley, but when it did, school was out briefly as every kid ran around on the blacktop-- catching snowflakes, playing with slush.
This is incredible!
I’m mentally here right now dreaming of a dip near a waterfall or a nap under cool foliage. My embroidery, The Lady of the Valley for you today. *completely freehand stitched in July 2021. Please feel free to dream away… 😊🪡🌿🌺 #stitchedart #embroidery #thesewingsongbird
Some ABSOLUTELY MASSIVE oak Gall Wasp galls spotted on my walk yesterday! Gall wasps inject eggs into plant tissues which then become these galls! Although they're a bit ugly, apparently they also support biodiversity by feeding birds and other insects that prey on the larvae.
Just received this AMAZING postcard on Postcrossing! Someone (with fantastic artistic skill) noticed that I mentioned a love of cowboys and mushrooms in my bio. I'm blown away! Judging by the skirt around the stem of the mushroom, and the scales on top, he's found some sort of Amanita!
I went for my first walk in over a year yesterday. After struggling with my weight and fighting an eating disorder, it just seemed impossible to get out of the house. But I DID IT! So excited to get out and about once again. [Photo: a Fortnight Lilly from my front yard!]
Hey y'all! I know this isn't what I usually post, but I'm the editor-in-chief of a nostalgic zine all about the 90s and 2000s. We just launched open submissions for our 2nd issue, all about CYBERSPACE! We'd love to see your submissions! bit.ly/y2areyouok #zines #zinesky #art #writingcommunity
I just realized I never posted an update! Here's my recently completed embroidery project! Most of my friends call me "Missy," but my birth name was actually something else. I'm not sure if Missy is what I'd like to be called forever, but I wanted to honor this little quirk of my growth journey :)
Hey Autistic folk, how do you feel about your birthday? I used to get really depressed each birthday. I often felt like I have to do more, be more. But I turn 29 today and I feel... fine! I'm happy with what I've done so far. And there's so much more to look forward to. Cheers to another year!
I finally indulged myself and bought a bundle of 10,000 stamps from the 40's and 50's! It's interesting to look back to a time when we had SO much national pride. There's a stamp for pretty much everything. Labor Day, unions, defeating polio, most national parks, centenaries for various orgs...
Now more than ever, check out a physical novel from your public library and read it in long, big gulps. It's like meditating. It's like putting your bare feet on the grass. It will help heal you.
As an Autistic person the invention of the internet radically changed the course of my life. Sometimes I think about Autistic people who lived before we had a global, virtual communication network-- how did they survive? The loneliness would have been suffocating for me.
With temperatures reaching the 80s this week, it seems like spring is truly over for us Californians. I'll be dreaming of rain for the next 6 months or so. I doubt most folks would agree with me, but I honestly think winter is the best season to hike! The forests and hills come alive with rain.
I made this for a friend of mine a few months ago. She's going through some MASSIVE life changes, and I feel like she needed a reminder that she's capable, strong, and most importantly, GETTING THROUGH IT. Sending this out to all of you in case you need a reminder too!
One year ago today 🌿 Echinocereus coccineus coccineus, our Scarlet Hedgehog Cactus, blooming above Cuchara Canyon #nativeplants
Here's some embroidery progress from last week! I get so excited when I get far into a project without having to undo or "frog" anything. Apparently, the term "frog" (meaning to pull out your stitches) is because you "rip it rip it" when you undo your work.
This little pink mushroom is so cool! Loved the way the blurry moss gave this guy a dreamy surrounding. Possibly Laccaria trichodermophora, or is it L. bicolor? #mushroom #fungifriends #mushrooms #nature #naturephotography #photographersofbluesky #mushroomsofbluesky #laccaria 🍄📷 📸🎞 🌿🌱 🟢 🍄 🍄🟫
So cute! Love the rainbow gills on the bottom!
A new patch for my swim gear bag! From a pattern by @badstitch.bsky.social. I tried a different finishing/edging technique, and while it looks a little wonky, I think that only adds to the charm. #crossstitch #embroidery #needlework #stitchsky
The hoops I have to jump through to get my Autistic self to do anything are similar. Sometimes I just do "pomodoro" sessions, sometimes I roll a random task, other times I try to mix challenging tasks and easy tasks. Fighting my own brain every step of the way!
My AuDHD mornings run on dice now. Six tasks, a 1d6 for priority, a 1d20 for minutes per task, a 60-second primer timer. The system that has finally aligned the autistic architecture with the ADHD activation. New piece today on Invisible Illness. medium.com/invisible-il... #audhd #adhd #autism
The danger of following Autistic people on social media is that our hyperfocus can change at any time. You followed me for mushrooms? It's alllll fabric arts now!
This looks so great. Undiagnosed Autistic girlhood is such a lonely experience.
"A raw and empathetic illustrated memoir tracing the hidden cost of masking, the depth of autistic girlhood, and the quiet resilience demanded for survival in a world that never seems to notice you're struggling and where you always feel just out of step." guardianbookshop.com/could-try-ha...
Just finished a huge writing project I've been working on (in some form or another) since July of last year. Whew! It's not quite done yet, still has to be illustrated, but man am I excited! I'll tell you guys all about it as soon as I can :) It's all about Autistic community!
One of my recent embroidery projects! I've really been leaning into crafts recently. I thought for most of my life that the only art I could do was writing. It was just what I was good at. But it's SO nice to take steps out of your comfort zone and explore challenging things. It's worth it!
Dropped off some more Postcrossing postcards today! My partner has joked that I'm turning into a bit of an Autistic stereotype-- I've fallen in love with stamps, cards, and all things stationery! It's so fun to decorate things and send them off across the world.
It's so odd to have gone through "a phase" of something. A hobby, a job, anything. Well you see, I used to do Z thing but I don't anymore. That was before you knew me. It creates this feeling of grieving a past that's still kind've present. You still have the tools of the trade, but..it's gone
Interview tomorrow. I wonder how much better life would be if interviews were over coffee or something... A relaxed setting, where everything isn't maximally stilted. You don't have to chat like hitting quicktime events in a video game, you can just sit there and talk like two real people.
'A simple (perfect) life' - my spring landscape is finally finished! An apple orchard in bloom, old railway, sheep with their lambs and an allotment being prepared for growing :) Zoom in to see all the other tiny details too... I think this might be my favourite aerial embroidery I've ever done!
I read a thinkpiece once that argued that human beings NEED physical hobbies. That we are neglecting our self-care to ignore skills that produce a real-life object at the end. Sometimes I wonder if this line of thinking would help us Autistics with regulation. Embroidery certainly calms me down!