Mr. Q
@mistrq.bsky.social
f.k.a. fearslave. Hardcore lifestyle kinkster. I write about kink: https://substack.com/@mstrq
I’m very glad Male Bounding / Brotherhood is recognized as a category of desire to satisfy on hanksocial.com. Another reason I like it.
This soldier is too eager to get into trouble… when the enemy promises brutal treatment to PoW.
I Played with a Straight Bro - 3rd piece of the healing journey trilogy open.substack.com/pub/mstrq/p/...
I’ve never been so love and hate a series like this one. I rewatched the first 3 episodes each time, but don’t have the courage to rewatch the 4th and 5th. I’ll watch the finale when there’s still sunlight outside.
My new article that may get me cock-blocked by both Old Guard and New Guard… 💀 Who Gets to Decide What Leather Is? open.substack.com/pub/mstrq/p/...
Part 2/2 open.substack.com/pub/mstrq/p/...
BED+D: Toward a Structural Theory of Power-Exchange Kink (Part 2/2)
Foundations, Philosophy, and the Human Cost: On the Right to Know Yourself, and to Live Authentically.
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A layered architecture of kink open.substack.com/pub/mstrq/p/...
I’m still figuring out why I’m drawn to this kind of dynamic the most - the sexy but broken big brother with toxic masculinity, the protective possession of “nobody can beat him up except me”, the modes of “let’s play and have fun bro” and “shut up you little piece of shit just do what I say”.
Okay enough thought-provoking stuff. Let me provoke something else and connect with my inner fag with fantasies.
It’s a beautiful and intimate moment with someone who gives you pain as pleasure then holds you tight.
A must read! I’m blown away! If Ray is a real person he would feel so seen… or so naked. 😄
I put my disjoint thoughts about Pillion (2025) into a blog post: ponyhound.link/pillion-revi... Thanks to the rich discussions w/ @mistrq.bsky.social , @spiderdog.bsky.social , @zadkielice.bsky.social , @aphyr.woof.group.ap.brid.gy , @ccshan.woof.group.ap.brid.gy , @cottonrope.bsky.social, etc.!
As probably the biggest fan of the #pillionmovie, i have so much to say about it - it’s deeply personal to me. This 3rd one i was ready to get cancelled for 😂 open.substack.com/pub/mstrq/p/... 1st general review: open.substack.com/pub/mstrq/p/... 2nd discussion: open.substack.com/pub/mstrq/p/...
Isn't love the whole point... of everything?
Pillion: my very biased, very personal review
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An absolutely fantastically well written article that really reminded me to stay true to myself as a lifestyle kinkster and not feel shame because it’s more than others may engage. I’m always happy to have a fun scene with friends, but I desire something deeper and I’m lucky to be surrounded by it.
This is for those broken hearted on this Valentine’s Day. Just know I’ve been there, I’m still going through, and I see you. (Voice over credit - wesaiditanyway on Instagram)
#pillionmovie Is it abuse, or just not your kind of love? My take - open.substack.com/pub/mstrq/p/...