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Jack Parker

@mxjackparker.bsky.social

I'm Jack (he/they) and I write about sex work and transness. My linktree, where you can find my articles, published works, and newsletter: linktr.ee/JackVParker

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Jack Parker@mxjackparker.bsky.social · last mo.

The phenomenon of non-binary people who don't consider themselves trans is linked to others using cissexual to describe non-binary people who don't medically transition. One isn't more transmedicalist of a framing than the other, it's just one includes the speaker being direct.

Jack Parker@mxjackparker.bsky.social · 2mo ago

I couldn't find many direct comparisons of trans guys bodies before, during and after pregnancy like this when I was trying, so here. First picture is 3 years on T. Second picture is at 41 weeks pregnant. Third picture is at 8.5 months post-partum, 7.5 months back on T.

First picture is of a white brown-haired shirtless trans man wearing jeans, sitting on a stool with his legs spread. He has top surgery scars and tattoos. Second picture is of him at 41 weeks pregnant, shirtless with a large belly. Third picture is at 8.5 months post-partum, with a mosaic censored baby resting on his hip, showing him shirtless in shorts.
Jack Parker@mxjackparker.bsky.social · 2mo ago

If any of you are scared of doing intramuscular injections for your testosterone or estrogren (or anything really), I wrote about how I do mine as a guide for myself and it may be useful to you. It's easy, fast, relatively painless, and I do it every week. jackviolet.com/2026/06/30/d...

DIY Self-Injection: Intramuscular

I am not a doctor or any other kind of medical professional, just a transgender person who handles my own HRT. Here’s the method I use for intramuscular injections at home which you are welco…

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Jack Parker@mxjackparker.bsky.social · 2mo ago

Civs do not realize how much easier it is for them to gossip than for activist hookers. We've all got like 4 names (personal, work persona, activist name, anon hooker pseudo) and multiple numbers. WHO ARE WE TALKING ABOUT?????

The Imminence Of A Revelation Which Does Not Occur@nataliereed84.bsky.social · 2mo ago

It was a VERY specific term, as much about naming a kind of radical feminist thought as about naming a kind of transphobia. Then eventually it came to mean “any transphobic feminist”. Then “any transphobic woman”. Then “any transphobe who gestures towards protecting women”. Then eventually just…

The Imminence Of A Revelation Which Does Not Occur@nataliereed84.bsky.social · 2mo ago

Any other oldheads every pause and stare in absolute awe at how far the word “TERF” has drifted from its original meaning? That people will now even apply it to neoliberal centrists and shit? Even conservative men? What is even the point of the word when it basically just means “transphobe”?

Jack Parker@mxjackparker.bsky.social · 2mo ago

The line between financial dependency while dating and sex work is blurred from the moment you ask the question: what if I stopped having sex with my partner? An article on transactional sex in romantic relationships: jackviolet.com/2026/06/14/f...

Financial Dependency in Dating: What if We Stopped Fucking?

The line between financial dependency while dating and sex work is blurred from the moment you ask the question: what if I stopped having sex with my partner?

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Jack Parker@mxjackparker.bsky.social · 2mo ago

The way I cope with processing trauma is through humour, but stopping in the middle of a story to go, "Oh, yeah, I definitely got molested. That's a textbook 'I was molested as a kid' thing to say," disturbs a lot of people. For understandable reason! Much to consider.

Jack Parker@mxjackparker.bsky.social · 2mo ago

I've heard people call it a second traumatization to be called to prove you were raped and subject to disbelief/questioning, but something I see acknowledged less is the way that trauma gets dug up and makes you sick every time you see other survivors being called liars.

Jack Parker@mxjackparker.bsky.social · 3mo ago

Homes for Hookers: London Renters' Crisis At a time when reforms are being made to how we rent and how much power landlords have, sex workers are being left behind. jackviolet.com/2026/05/20/h...

Homes for Hookers: London Renters’ Crisis

A monthly payslip feels like a golden ticket when you’re used to struggling to pass the referencing process for a rental agreement. If you can find a job that will give one to you consistentl…

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Jack Parker@mxjackparker.bsky.social · 3mo ago

Homes for Hookers: London Renters' Crisis At a time when reforms are being made to how we rent and how much power landlords have, sex workers are being left behind. jackviolet.com/2026/05/20/h...

Homes for Hookers: London Renters’ Crisis

A monthly payslip feels like a golden ticket when you’re used to struggling to pass the referencing process for a rental agreement. If you can find a job that will give one to you consistentl…

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Jack Parker@mxjackparker.bsky.social · 3mo ago

Holy shit they rolled it back! updates.kickstarter.com/an-apology-r...

An Apology: Rethinking Our Mature Content Guidelines

Last week, we released a set of updates to our rules around mature content. It was our first time publishing a set of detailed, specific guidelines for adult-oriented content on Kickstarter. And hones...

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Jack Parker@mxjackparker.bsky.social · 3mo ago

Kickstarter now joins an ever-increasing list of platforms leaving adult content creators behind. Here's how that will impact sex workers who used the platform. Kickstarter's New Mature Content Guidelines jackviolet.com/2026/05/12/k...

Jack Parker@mxjackparker.bsky.social · 3mo ago

Kickstarter now joins an ever-increasing list of platforms leaving adult content creators behind. Here's how that will impact sex workers who used the platform. Kickstarter's New Mature Content Guidelines jackviolet.com/2026/05/12/k...

Kickstarter’s New “Mature Content” Guidelines

Kickstarter now joins an ever-increasing list of platforms leaving adult content creators behind. Here’s how that will impact sex workers who used the platform.

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