Not Quite Old

@notquiteold.bsky.social

Theo-sophy on that other site. Henry is a Catalan Herding Dog - like Einstein in Back To The Future. He's shy. Mom is a writer and watercolor artist. Art inquiries at notquiteold51@gmail.com

Sometimes it only takes a few kind words to brush away someone’s bad mood. But if it is a deep sadness you might need more than a few. The best thing is to have lots of kind words always ready.

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I’ll be honest. I was a jerk yesterday. But Thor was also a jerk, And so was Niko, And Athena. (and maybe even Dad). So what I thought was “fitting in” was actually “piling on.” Beware of cumulative jerkness - It can hurt. Sorry, Mom.

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Mom took FOREVER getting back from Target. It’s on a very busy street, and that means Mom constantly stops to let everyone into her lane. Instead of being cranky from the traffic, she feels like a very nice person. She calls it Making Twelve Second Friends.

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There’s one In every family - The Complainer. Complaining about the same stuff you have to put up with too. But remember - You actually agree. There’s a lot to complain about. You just cope better. So get out those good coping skills and say, “I know! It’s awful.”

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Dad got a great deal on a new capacitor. Everybody in the house is happy. Nobody in the house knows what the heck that is. But here’s the moral: Be happy that not everybody shares your interest or has the same knowledge. Different knowledge benefits you too

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You know what takes Confidence and Courage? Changing direction when the way you were going isn’t working for you. Admitting you got lost is the hardest part. Turn around. And if ANYONE calls you a quitter, you let me know. (I will bite them in the butt.)

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Sometimes you have so many things to do that you don’t have time for your friends and your family (and pets) And they have to wait for you. Did you know that ‘things’ are much better at waiting than friends and family (and pets)?

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Be Impressed. (with yourself) Look at all the scary stuff you did Little scary stuff, like diving off the high dive or trying calamari. And big scary stuff, Like your first job or having kids or learning to live alone. Impressive!

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Sometimes I worry that no one likes me - that I’m not good enough. Just kidding. Dogs don’t think that way. Neither do cats. Or birds. Or pigs. Or cows. Or even ants. Humans are the masters of the Animal Kingdom and the only animal who feels inadequate.

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You should make the most of every minute of the day. But the most of every minute depends on what you need most in the minute. A lot of the time what you need most is to close your eyes. Using your time wisely can certainly include a nap.

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I have two pieces of advice today: 1. Keep your heart open because love might find you and you need to let it in. 2. Keep your bathroom door open so your pets can find you and you need to let them in.

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You know who I’d like to bite? The guy who told you you can’t sing. Of course you can sing! Human songs are amazing! Better than birds who sing the same dumb tune over and over. You’ve got millions of songs and your voice is as sweet to me as a sparrow‘s! Sing!

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