Paige Savage 🕊️🦂 Minneapolis
@paigesavage.bsky.social
Good time curator. Your new Roman Empire. Minneapolis • Chicago Site: 🪩 MeetPaigeSavage.com Blog: ✒️ https://substack.com/@paigesavage Telegram: 📰 https://t.me/+0KaSYFzZFTQ3NTUx
men who let other men's opinions and perceptions dictate who they're allowed to want, publicly or privately, are cowards. i said what i said.
i have to admit… i really love bimbofication. not just the aesthetic, but the mental side of it too.
restraint is a form of foreplay and i enjoy when a man revels in it.
My body works. It works well. And I almost broke it chasing a projection. The industry rewards conventional attractiveness. Social media rewards it louder. But if I let that slice be the thing that validates me, I’m going to be seriously fucked. open.substack.com/pub/paigesav...
chasing what the market prefers
i tanked my hormones and almost broke my liver chasing what the market prefers... at least my pancreas is gorgeous
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if i could go back, i’d tell past me: trust your intuition and trust the data because “vibes” are not a business strategy. yes, what we do is highly personal and it’s still a business. all the numbers are telling you something. so, listen girly pop.
People outside this industry believe that love between a client & a provider isn’t possible. That the financial structure precludes it. But that’s not how it works. Boundaried love is still love. That doesn’t become less real b/c there’s a structure around it. open.substack.com/pub/paigesav...
when an arrangement ends
thoughts on love with boundaries, what the container is for, and why i won't be an unpaid mistress
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just because i don’t post all the things clients do for me doesn’t mean they aren’t happening the absence of evidence (that people know of) is not evidence of absence. some things are more fun when it’s just between that individual and me
new substack dropped. it’s vulnerable and honest and ends with a man rebooking before I made it to valet open.substack.com/pub/paigesav...
under the softness
on inherited beliefs, louder lies, and finally deciding those limitations wouldn't be mine
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a day in the life: robbed at the Drybar, flagged down a cop, then spent two hours with my Uber driver who was 10 toes down for the cause and got OUT OF THE VEHICLE to press people for me as we followed them on Find My iPhone. despite the stress, and being so damn close twice, it was kind of fun.
showing my client all the hidden features in his new car and he looked at me like i was a genius. nobody reads their car manual and it shows. 🤭😅
valet → tsa → caribou coffee → gate in under 20 minutes… this is how it should be
totally forgot I created a telegram 🙈 t.me/+kqAwCKZd1xx...
see you soon Chicago and Philadelphia! 😉
cities I’d like to visit soon: Boston, Charlotte, Houston, St. Louis, Denver and Scottsdale
some cities feel different the moment you land. something in the air, the pace, the light… and i've been thinking about a few of them lately.
in an elevator with a client and a man looks at us and says “you look nothing like your father… your mother must be gorgeous” I had to keep it together until the doors closed 😩🤭
“have you ever shared a seventh-inning stretch with someone who knows how to look at you when you light up about something you love?” i wrote about my mlb stadium challenge on substack… if that kind of thing resonates with you #oursky
a client and i started a book club we started with The Long Walk, a dystopian trauma… & now, we’re on Antony and Cleopatra, a doomed empire. book club with this man is escalation after escalation…
a little travel this month… NYC: March 9-11 DC: March 16-18 MeetPaigeSavage.com #oursky
late-stage capitalism update: black history month ends soon for an additional $1000 i will issue you a certificate of completion confirming you have “engaged in allyship” a premium embossed version costs extra, frame sold separately, & no refunds in March #oursky
a 72 year old who “can’t work computers” walked to the store, bought two gift cards with cash, and paid his deposit via invoice with zero issues interpret that as you will… #oursky
i’ve avoided doing an advice column for years because, hello… do we really need more opinions? but i get asked the same kinds of questions a lot from clients & providers… so, i’m trying it you can send questions to: themainpaigemsp@gmail.com
some women wait for flowers some women become them happy valentine’s day 💕
every time i go to post something: not polished enough… not perfect enough. the reality is the pressure to be exceptional just to earn a fraction is exhausting. and some of us were handed a smaller margin for error from the start. #oursky