Paul Ryder
@paul-ryder.bsky.social
NSFW. 18+ only. Gay. Husband. Leather and bondage fetishist in Leeds, UK.
Him-bull ready for auction @vilaingarconmtl.bsky.social @furrjoi.com #folsomeu
Lately I've been getting more cruises in Recon and honestly I wish I could turn them off (the feature seems to be lost in the new version). Often I'm not in the right mindset when they come in to respond/react.
Trying to normalize the disappointment of cruising a hot profile on Recon - getting a view back - and no return cruise… I know… cruises are folly and dumb… 😪
Lately I've been exploring a feeding kink and I have an idea for a future scene. I'm struggling to find the equipment though and could use some help from the fetish collective.
I was getting too Dom so some reprogramming was required, courtesy of the folks at @vilaingarcon.bsky.social
I lost the original 4mm to my e-stim box ages ago so I've been sans electro until I finally replaced it. I even added to my collection, including some nipple clamps. After all this time I'd forgotten what 9v to the nipples felt like! 😵💫⚡️
Charles "Trip" Ryder, an ancestor of mine, was a bounty hunter specialising in the reacquisition of rubber drones that had escaped the programming facility run by The Company.
Even though I'm generally fine showing off my fetish side, there's still some anxiety showing my sub side. Anyway, here is a tastefully cropped pic from a recent visit to my Sir - @mancsrigger.bsky.social
My first set of tactical gear has arrived. Now I just need some stuff to help me 'detain' any bad boys that cross my path! #gay #mlm #tacticalgear
Upped my squat PB to 195kg and the leg pump shows! 200kg by the end of the year?
It’s official – in a few weeks, I’ll be in Amsterdam competing for Mr. Leather Europe! I hope to bring my experience thus far to a wider stage and support kinksters and clubs across Europe with my knowledge and be the role model I looked up to, starting off on the scene.
I've wanted to do some kinky wrestling for ages and finally got the chance at Folsom with @babasultanwrestler.bsky.social Check out the video on my Instagram
Today was a good day at the gym! A new 115kg PB on Bench Press and managed to get back to my pre-surgery PB on Squat at 190kg
So this is what Hunter is supposed to look like! Only time I've been was the (much quieter) weekend after Folsom 🤦🏻♂️
Night 2 of Hunter London. Thank you to @phantom-bondage.bsky.social for putting me on display as the object that I am! Fantasy fulfilled!
I'm convinced that chastity is for twinks and people with thigh-gaps, because how are you going about your day or going to the gym without your thighs trying to constantly castrate you?!
A few days ago I did a thing, hiking to 5106 metres above sea level in Nepal on the Manaslu Circuit. I even took a LML+ flag with me
Arms are still lagging behind everything else, but the workouts at the gym are paying off
For a long time I had fantasies of inversions (hanging upside down). After a few inverted rope suspensions and a recent go on a bondage wheel, the reality is that I can't hold the position long enough. Whether it's something I can train, or I just have too much blood in my body, I don't know
One of my earliest forays into kink. I remember travelling to M.A.R.S (Manchester Alternative Rooms) on my own back in 2016. It was my first dungeon, and like a kid in a candy shop I wanted to try everything!
A long, long time ago (2018), I had my first experience with a vacbed. Needless to say I enjoyed it! Although you'll mostly find me in leather and rope, rubber can be fun too!
My wellspring of rope/bondage pics is running low. Anyone interested in making more? #gayBDSM
More leather from the Easter Berlin shoot 📸: @vansf12 (Instagram) #gay #gayleather #leathermen #leatherfetish
You wouldn't take advantage of someone with puppy dog eyes - even if they're already cuffed - would you?! #gay #bdsm #gaybdsm #bondage #handcuffs
Self-bondage is OK, but it's much better if someone else controls when you get released! Don't you agree? #gay #bdsm #gaybdsm #bondage #gayleather
Last of the photos from the mini rope jam - don't mind me, just going to rest here - October 2021