Paul Ryder

@paul-ryder.bsky.social

NSFW. 18+ only. Gay. Husband. Leather and bondage fetishist in Leeds, UK.

Lately I've been exploring a feeding kink and I have an idea for a future scene. I'm struggling to find the equipment though and could use some help from the fetish collective.

I lost the original 4mm to my e-stim box ages ago so I've been sans electro until I finally replaced it. I even added to my collection, including some nipple clamps. After all this time I'd forgotten what 9v to the nipples felt like! 😵‍💫⚡️

Charles "Trip" Ryder, an ancestor of mine, was a bounty hunter specialising in the reacquisition of rubber drones that had escaped the programming facility run by The Company.

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It’s official – in a few weeks, I’ll be in Amsterdam competing for Mr. Leather Europe! I hope to bring my experience thus far to a wider stage and support kinksters and clubs across Europe with my knowledge and be the role model I looked up to, starting off on the scene.

Mr Leather Europe Contestant 4 – Jamie, Mr Dublin Leather 2025

I'm convinced that chastity is for twinks and people with thigh-gaps, because how are you going about your day or going to the gym without your thighs trying to constantly castrate you?!

For a long time I had fantasies of inversions (hanging upside down). After a few inverted rope suspensions and a recent go on a bondage wheel, the reality is that I can't hold the position long enough. Whether it's something I can train, or I just have too much blood in my body, I don't know

One of my earliest forays into kink. I remember travelling to M.A.R.S (Manchester Alternative Rooms) on my own back in 2016. It was my first dungeon, and like a kid in a candy shop I wanted to try everything!

A long, long time ago (2018), I had my first experience with a vacbed. Needless to say I enjoyed it! Although you'll mostly find me in leather and rope, rubber can be fun too!